11-07-2016, 07:09 PM
To be more exact.
It's not that they're being rude because you're attractive. It's because they pegged you as a beta in the past, and subconsciously, they don't like that you've suddenly increased in value. So, they're trying to "put you back in your place." It's basically beta shaming. "Who the hell are you to suddenly not be a beta?!"
Killing them with kindness isn't necessarily the answer unless you're doing it in a non-reactive, almost sarcastic manner. Ignoring the shit out of them unless they force you to react is. If you have to interact with them and they're acting rude, act disgusted, roll your eyes, chuckle and walk away. Or, smirk at them. The way you'd treat a petulant child. That confirms your value above them.
It's not that they're being rude because you're attractive. It's because they pegged you as a beta in the past, and subconsciously, they don't like that you've suddenly increased in value. So, they're trying to "put you back in your place." It's basically beta shaming. "Who the hell are you to suddenly not be a beta?!"
Killing them with kindness isn't necessarily the answer unless you're doing it in a non-reactive, almost sarcastic manner. Ignoring the shit out of them unless they force you to react is. If you have to interact with them and they're acting rude, act disgusted, roll your eyes, chuckle and walk away. Or, smirk at them. The way you'd treat a petulant child. That confirms your value above them.
