11-07-2016, 03:06 PM
When you're met with snarky behavior it can fit into 2 classes :
1) women you already know - they had categorized you as a friend or not interested in you, when they suddenly become attracted to you it confuses and scares them so they make an attempt to actively act rude as a form of saying "no i'm not interested" - when in fact they are becoming interested. That's not to say anything will happen, once a woman puts you into a certain category in her life it's very unlikely that they'll remove you from that category no matter how much attraction there is. It's not so much a "friendzone" as it is a "friend-filter". Women do have guys who they consider nothing more than friends, at the moment, but if it were to happen they wouldn't protest. They also have friends who they've already discounted any idea of anything happening.
2) women you don't know - Unless they're having a really shitty day it's simply that they think you're out of their league so they reject you before you get a chance to reject them. People have a bad habit of thinking that attractive people are stuck up, snobby, arrogant, etc so when somebody is attracted to you they immediately jump to that conclusion and begin treating you the way they assume you would treat them. Catman is right it's just a matter of being friendly and down to earth in this case. They can also be snark if they think you are on their level BUT they're already in a relationship that they're happy in. They're attracted, but do love their partner and don't want to cheat, so the easiest way to divert any attraction is to be rude to you.
I'm not sure about the repelling affects of DMSI, it may be simply that you don't see anything in them and lose interest, so your "natural" aura/energy that would be projecting when you're interested in a woman goes away from her, she senses this, and runs off as well.
1) women you already know - they had categorized you as a friend or not interested in you, when they suddenly become attracted to you it confuses and scares them so they make an attempt to actively act rude as a form of saying "no i'm not interested" - when in fact they are becoming interested. That's not to say anything will happen, once a woman puts you into a certain category in her life it's very unlikely that they'll remove you from that category no matter how much attraction there is. It's not so much a "friendzone" as it is a "friend-filter". Women do have guys who they consider nothing more than friends, at the moment, but if it were to happen they wouldn't protest. They also have friends who they've already discounted any idea of anything happening.
2) women you don't know - Unless they're having a really shitty day it's simply that they think you're out of their league so they reject you before you get a chance to reject them. People have a bad habit of thinking that attractive people are stuck up, snobby, arrogant, etc so when somebody is attracted to you they immediately jump to that conclusion and begin treating you the way they assume you would treat them. Catman is right it's just a matter of being friendly and down to earth in this case. They can also be snark if they think you are on their level BUT they're already in a relationship that they're happy in. They're attracted, but do love their partner and don't want to cheat, so the easiest way to divert any attraction is to be rude to you.
I'm not sure about the repelling affects of DMSI, it may be simply that you don't see anything in them and lose interest, so your "natural" aura/energy that would be projecting when you're interested in a woman goes away from her, she senses this, and runs off as well.
