09-14-2011, 05:54 PM
(This post was last modified: 09-14-2011, 05:59 PM by LionMonkey.)
"Penetrate" is rather a offensive word to use lol.
I agree though. I guess I was thinking of my old self when I decided to write about it.
I'm in day 30 of stage 2 (only 2 days left!!!) and I've read that stage 3 should be the one who begins to kick ass!
Looking forward to it.
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I have a serious scratch on my back. I can lock it out but it still has some effect, since you are living in the same house...
My younger brother is like the worst person you can surround yourself with. I have no idea how he turned out that way but he is negative all the way and he threats mom very bad, in a way that he curses and raise his voice. He's like a little kid who never grew up and resent everything. He always pass things over and in his head it's always someone else' fault.
He can't even support himself and he wants to move out. He takes everything for granted.
If someone have an idea how to guide him out of that s*** place, I would appreciate. I've tried and now I am tolerating. I see him going down in a very dark place if he don't start change :idea:.
Just one example; Every year or every second year we would travel to our home-country, to our family and visit them. This summer nothing in the world would make him go with us and we've already bought the ticket.
what did he do at home in this country in 45 days? he played computer games all the time and ordered delivered food directly to the door
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The thing is, his world is very small and he thinks that he is right with everything and when he knows I or someone else has right, he doesn't take it serious or he doesn't acknowledge it.
It may be good to believe to do whatever you want when you want it but when you don't have any perspective and knowledge because of lack of experience, you won't get far in life. Sometimes it even seems like he have no values or morals because of his ignorance.
with that said, he does want to educate himself but he gives up easily. he was a good kid and sweet to when he was younger (he is 18 now).
now I know you may think, "dude, help him.. don't be that harsh to him.. he is in a fatal period of life to discover who he is or wants to be.. he sounds weak and needs a role model, etc.."
If you have a younger brother, you know how ANNOYING the person can be. How you sometimes just wished he disappeared:@...
I've tried many times and sometimes I feel very weak when I try to help in a genuine way but hasn't worked. What I've tried to do is ignore him. Just act as if he isn't there and sometimes I'll respond to the situation but that's when I really feel that there's a need to it.
- LM
I agree though. I guess I was thinking of my old self when I decided to write about it.
I'm in day 30 of stage 2 (only 2 days left!!!) and I've read that stage 3 should be the one who begins to kick ass!
Looking forward to it.
=====================================================================
I have a serious scratch on my back. I can lock it out but it still has some effect, since you are living in the same house...
My younger brother is like the worst person you can surround yourself with. I have no idea how he turned out that way but he is negative all the way and he threats mom very bad, in a way that he curses and raise his voice. He's like a little kid who never grew up and resent everything. He always pass things over and in his head it's always someone else' fault.
He can't even support himself and he wants to move out. He takes everything for granted.
If someone have an idea how to guide him out of that s*** place, I would appreciate. I've tried and now I am tolerating. I see him going down in a very dark place if he don't start change :idea:.
Just one example; Every year or every second year we would travel to our home-country, to our family and visit them. This summer nothing in the world would make him go with us and we've already bought the ticket.
what did he do at home in this country in 45 days? he played computer games all the time and ordered delivered food directly to the door
.The thing is, his world is very small and he thinks that he is right with everything and when he knows I or someone else has right, he doesn't take it serious or he doesn't acknowledge it.
It may be good to believe to do whatever you want when you want it but when you don't have any perspective and knowledge because of lack of experience, you won't get far in life. Sometimes it even seems like he have no values or morals because of his ignorance.
with that said, he does want to educate himself but he gives up easily. he was a good kid and sweet to when he was younger (he is 18 now).
now I know you may think, "dude, help him.. don't be that harsh to him.. he is in a fatal period of life to discover who he is or wants to be.. he sounds weak and needs a role model, etc.."
If you have a younger brother, you know how ANNOYING the person can be. How you sometimes just wished he disappeared:@...
I've tried many times and sometimes I feel very weak when I try to help in a genuine way but hasn't worked. What I've tried to do is ignore him. Just act as if he isn't there and sometimes I'll respond to the situation but that's when I really feel that there's a need to it.
- LM
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
