11-03-2016, 03:48 PM
(11-03-2016, 03:29 PM)4Kingdoms Wrote:What's an obvious smile in your opinion?(11-03-2016, 03:19 PM)maxx55 Wrote:(11-03-2016, 03:13 PM)4Kingdoms Wrote:(11-03-2016, 03:03 PM)maxx55 Wrote: I don't care what Shannon says about being a jellyfish. I really don't want to invest time in approaching girls until I'm 100% sure that whatever "block" I had with achieving sex is gone. Once that block is gone and I know I'm not wasting time, I'd be much more willing. As I said earlier, if a hot girl would just come up to me and call me hot I'd have no problem taking it from there.
Shannon didn't say anything about "approaching", he just said 'do your thing'. If a girl gets close enough to hear your voice, talk to her and go with the flow. Don't stand around like you don't exist, say something to her.
http://subliminal-talk.com/thread-8097-p...#pid140318
(11-03-2016, 04:41 AM)Shannon Wrote: The goal of DMSI is to get them to do their thing. You don't want to sit there and stop existing, though. Do your thing. When DMSI is done, they'll probably do your thing for you, before you do. Until then, don't be a jellyfish (passive). Do your thing.
Right I totally understand that he's not saying "Go out and approach girls".
I pass by many attractive girls throughout my day. I use to make it a habit to interact with them and move things forward. It's just the combination of my annoying sex drive (which needs to be satisfied) and the lack of appreciation from girls in the past that makes me think twice.
This is very empowering and you are 'doing your thing'!!
Now if... as you said, "In my mind I thought to myself today that in terms of girls, if things happened in my favor at least 50% of the time, I'd be much more likely to act. I'd be WAY WAY happier with a pure 50/50 chance everytime I talked to a new girl."
The girls met you halfway and said 'Hi' first or gave you an obvious smile and you didn't act on it, then you would be a 'jellyfish'. Until that happens, keep doing what empowers you; DO YOUR THING!!
