11-01-2016, 05:15 PM
When a woman calls you an asshole, it's actually a good thing, because it means you have her emotionally invested. Negatively or positively, they don't care: emotional investment can lead to attraction they cannot control.
My girlfriend calls me an asshole all the time because I do what I want and make no bones about it. She knows I am always going to do this, and she's always welcome to find someone who treats her however she wants instead. But she would rather rail against me doing my thing and call me an asshole - and then constantly remind me that she wants more sex.
You're typically an "asshole" when a woman wants to control you, but can't. IE, you're in control of yourself instead, and you're going to do your own thing and such regardless of what she does or wants you to do. It's a subtle way of saying, "I hate you because I am vulnerable to you in ways I can't control." And it's a great way to know when you're holding the leash.
"If I'm such an asshole, go find someone else."
If she does, it'll be another "asshole". Rest assured.
My girlfriend calls me an asshole all the time because I do what I want and make no bones about it. She knows I am always going to do this, and she's always welcome to find someone who treats her however she wants instead. But she would rather rail against me doing my thing and call me an asshole - and then constantly remind me that she wants more sex.
You're typically an "asshole" when a woman wants to control you, but can't. IE, you're in control of yourself instead, and you're going to do your own thing and such regardless of what she does or wants you to do. It's a subtle way of saying, "I hate you because I am vulnerable to you in ways I can't control." And it's a great way to know when you're holding the leash.
"If I'm such an asshole, go find someone else."
If she does, it'll be another "asshole". Rest assured.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
