09-04-2011, 12:51 PM
I've always liked to give some "love" when I felt I was in a great mood.. so yeah :-) Though I must say that in my experience, it isn't the best way to let the girl get me. I was just having fun with a lot of alcohol ;-p
Now honestly, I've not always done it. A year ago, I made a conscious effort to improve my skills of going up to girls and compliment them and walk away. Having done that, it made it easier for me to just go over to a girl or a group. Usually when it's a group, it's very platonic and I've never really had anything real & lasting coming out of that.
By the end of that period, I felt this isn't what I want so I stopped doing it. I still do it sometimes now and then if a girl really catches my attention but not so much at all.
What I do mostly now is placing myself somewhere and talk with people around me or just very random spontaneously go over and say something.
(By the exception of Stage 2 right now. I am very self-absorbed and not so social at the moment)
Having said that, didn't you do Overcome Approach Anxiety? Didn't it have an effect? Day & Night approaching?
- LM
Now honestly, I've not always done it. A year ago, I made a conscious effort to improve my skills of going up to girls and compliment them and walk away. Having done that, it made it easier for me to just go over to a girl or a group. Usually when it's a group, it's very platonic and I've never really had anything real & lasting coming out of that.
By the end of that period, I felt this isn't what I want so I stopped doing it. I still do it sometimes now and then if a girl really catches my attention but not so much at all.
What I do mostly now is placing myself somewhere and talk with people around me or just very random spontaneously go over and say something.
(By the exception of Stage 2 right now. I am very self-absorbed and not so social at the moment)
Having said that, didn't you do Overcome Approach Anxiety? Didn't it have an effect? Day & Night approaching?
- LM
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
