(10-25-2016, 05:41 PM)RTBoss Wrote: Your reaction definitely justifies your use of V2.4. I think you can really use the healing/validation/clearing. There are clearly specific issues surrounding women that E2 hasn't touched. Don't worry about it, man, there will be a next time.
In the future, try not to guess her motivations. If she says, "Just hangin' out?" try elaborating. Say, "Well yeah, maybe we'll do A, B, and C and end up over at my place for a movie. It'll be fun." Then slap her ass (just kidding, lol). In the meantime, let DMSI help you out.
Okay. That makes sense. That's might take a little time to break that habit. That's how I behave socially. I just take in information and then yeah I do make assumptions. Most of the time, they're right. But I've had my share of times where I'm so sure I'm right, but I end up being wrong. I did naturally assume that she was trying to "friend zone" me. But she never said "as just friends" or anything like that. She even sat close enough to me in her swivel chair that every time she turned around her legs touched mine. It wasn't some bs like a foot tap, it was leg to leg full contact multiple times. But I'm gonna drop this for now.
@Wolverine Yeah, I totally understand. I usually always get the number if it's a total flake, that's one of the real surprises for me, she didn't just give me her number as soon as I mentioned it. I was surprised. It's just that I sort of developed a sense that has been accurate in the past. And my sense was telling me that she likes me. Honestly, I think being wrong is what affected me more than thinking I was "rejected". Thinking that I was wrong and knowing I'd have to still see her after being unsuccessful.
But thanks for the responses guys. I'm just going to move past this for now
