08-30-2011, 09:20 AM
Hey Ryan, great stuff man. I guess at this point in AM for me, it isn't improving my flirting skills and letting them come to me that well yet but the confidence is great really!
Actually the dancer told me about her friends f***ed up relationships, with a lot of drama quickly that night at the club and that's why she needed to take care of them and be with them that night.
Soo..
she wrote to me this morning and told me she was sorry that she didn't wanted to respond, she had a lot of things to see to at the moment and if we should see each other again, it wouldn't be within the next 2 weeks and wrote sorry again.
Something happened when I saw the message. I got a slightly feeling of happiness, a quick boost. That either shows that I like this girl more than others or I'm just not there yet to being indifferent with a girl I even haven't done anything more with than making out... probably the first because with her dance-moves on the floor.. it gets wild!
Now I haven't answered her yet, but my first thoughts; I should tell her not to be drowned in her friends problems, since she doesn't have a f***ed up relationship and that she could contact me when she wants to.
but then I thought, why should I care? I mean, at least she's responding now but it's not on my terms. It's like she wants me to stay around and be sure of me.
What would you have done?
- LM
Actually the dancer told me about her friends f***ed up relationships, with a lot of drama quickly that night at the club and that's why she needed to take care of them and be with them that night.
Soo..
she wrote to me this morning and told me she was sorry that she didn't wanted to respond, she had a lot of things to see to at the moment and if we should see each other again, it wouldn't be within the next 2 weeks and wrote sorry again.
Something happened when I saw the message. I got a slightly feeling of happiness, a quick boost. That either shows that I like this girl more than others or I'm just not there yet to being indifferent with a girl I even haven't done anything more with than making out... probably the first because with her dance-moves on the floor.. it gets wild!
Now I haven't answered her yet, but my first thoughts; I should tell her not to be drowned in her friends problems, since she doesn't have a f***ed up relationship and that she could contact me when she wants to.
but then I thought, why should I care? I mean, at least she's responding now but it's not on my terms. It's like she wants me to stay around and be sure of me.
What would you have done?
- LM
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
