08-29-2011, 05:28 PM
Hey Lion, you're getting there man! I remember back in stage 2 of Alpha, I kinda miss it right now as opposed to stage 2 of SM which is kicking my butt lately. I've had similar responses to women and in person they are always going to be more welcoming then via text. The thing is, perhaps she was pursuing you at first...then you switched it and started pursuing her and came off a bit more needy towards her (the whole we should hang out tomorrow thing). I remember during Alpha I was very needy to get with women until the later stages, I was pursuing them like crazy, just don't let it get you down if she doesn't respond. The biggest thing I learned...is patience. Once you allow yourself to live for yourself and know that she has to earn a 'date' with you, you'll see a change in the way women respond to your offers. Continue talking to, flirting with and allowing her to become comfortable with the idea of you two together. When you ask her out...try something different like inviting her to a party with you. "Hey you, I'm going to a party with some friends this weekend, you're welcome to join me if you'd like" or something to that extent. You want it to be a mutual decision to meet and in my opinion, you want it to be more-so her decision And totally do not ask a girl if she isn't interest in you, you always want to assume that she is, regardless and if she doesn't line up with that, walk away.
Ryan
Ryan