10-15-2016, 05:29 AM
(10-15-2016, 01:55 AM)4Kingdoms Wrote:(10-14-2016, 09:29 PM)eternitys_child Wrote: .autopilot kicked in today and I took it upon myself to sit next to the hottest girl in the room, without any second thought. we exchanged some friendly banter. other guys in the room looked at me with expressions like "what the hell is this guy thinking? the nerve of him sitting next to a girl like that?" but once I found out she has 1 day clean off drugs, i stopped engaging with her becuase it's against my code to engage with girls who haven't reached a certain level in their recovery.
Rules.... it's too bad you judged a book by it's cover. The girl is trying and she opened up to you about her recovery.
When my friend asked me to be his wingman (15 year ago) and introduced me to pick up. He had so many rules. His retort was, "I didn't learn pick up to just be friends." And my response was, "You could have made a friend and she may have introduced you to one of her friends and that "friend of hers" could have been "the one".
Eternity, I'm not judging you. I have rules and they hold me back. We are all here to learn. I'm learning day by day, just like everyone in this forum.
I feel what you're saying. But I have this rule for the protection of woman's life. Let's say I get with her, we go our separate ways, but she is attached emotionally and doesn't know how to deal with the emotions so she goes and relapses on drugs and overdoses and dies. I've witnessed it happen. That's why I have the rule.
