10-13-2016, 07:29 PM
(This post was last modified: 10-13-2016, 07:57 PM by ShanghaiKiwi.)
Thanks guys I appreciate that.
This girl is a little confusing. She knows I've totally got the hots for her but hasn't made it any less ambiguous whether or not this is going to go further. Yet she is still happy to go do heaps of stuff together like badminton, rock climbing, try out a bunch of restaurants and generally spend heaps of time alone together. My guess is that she's leaving the door wide open for it to develop into something sexual but she doesn't want to go too fast. I'm open to that. She's an awesome woman.
However as long as I'm not her boyfriend, there's nothing to be loyal about. When it is, I will be. Am I missing something? She told me straight up she isn't going to sleep with me and just wants to be friends. Then when I tell her I like her for who she is and am not just trying to get in her pants she behaves like she wants to be best-friends-forever. As far as I can see it at face value, that's exactly all I should expect and I should enjoy it for what it is. It's great to have a friend like that, I'm not complaining. I might ask her if she has any friends who want a foreigner for a boyfriend. Am I wrong here or am I missing something? I don't understand women very well.
She either just wants to be friends, or she does like me but she's suspicious that I'm just going to have sex with her then break her heart. Thoughts?
This girl is a little confusing. She knows I've totally got the hots for her but hasn't made it any less ambiguous whether or not this is going to go further. Yet she is still happy to go do heaps of stuff together like badminton, rock climbing, try out a bunch of restaurants and generally spend heaps of time alone together. My guess is that she's leaving the door wide open for it to develop into something sexual but she doesn't want to go too fast. I'm open to that. She's an awesome woman.
However as long as I'm not her boyfriend, there's nothing to be loyal about. When it is, I will be. Am I missing something? She told me straight up she isn't going to sleep with me and just wants to be friends. Then when I tell her I like her for who she is and am not just trying to get in her pants she behaves like she wants to be best-friends-forever. As far as I can see it at face value, that's exactly all I should expect and I should enjoy it for what it is. It's great to have a friend like that, I'm not complaining. I might ask her if she has any friends who want a foreigner for a boyfriend. Am I wrong here or am I missing something? I don't understand women very well.
She either just wants to be friends, or she does like me but she's suspicious that I'm just going to have sex with her then break her heart. Thoughts?
