10-04-2016, 09:08 PM
(This post was last modified: 10-04-2016, 09:22 PM by RoaringLion.)
Yeah it is like mine is scared of being shown affection. If i hug her or cuddle with her she will push me away within 1 or 2 seconds and say "oh i forgot...". Touching her body anywhere other than nipples or clitoris seems to do nothing. I feel like I'm touching a robot most of the time.
I talked to her about it and she made an effort to be more affectionate towards me and even made an effort to have more sex, but it is abit too late now, I'm already bored, plus i feel like I'm a just 1 level above a dog to her, just here to keep her company, make her cum when she wants to. I love doggy style and she complains about me being too big when i do it when in my opinion I'm not really.
Sounds like I'm in a better situation than you because my wife actually has sex with me sometimes but just once per week or so. Often she has some kind of excuse though. Not only this but she has no patience at all and is way too worried about us being clean so we can't have spontaneous sex, everything has to be planned and usually she will only do it at night when she is in bed or in the morning when we're both in bed together.
One time i got her to buy some sexy outfits online, she said "ok if you buy them" so they came and she went crazy about it, telling me I'm a pervert and she won't wear them, just lingerie and a fishnet body stocking that looked hot in the girl in the picture. Finally got her to wear what i bought after arguments.
Anyway, I'm still here because i want other Chinese girls and i get easy access to a visa this way. Now i don't really feel like having sex with her so i rarely initiate and i find other girls who do want to.
Now i will stay until i make the contacts and a higher paying job i need to be able to stay here myself. Until then i play with other girls. I don't like this and before i came i never thought i would cheat but after being shouted at so much by her so much and having a lack of affection i don't care.
She hates me going to clubs alone, especially after she came with me one time and found out i added a girl i like to Wechat and another hot girl came to me and said i have beautiful eyes, then said she wants to find someone like me to my girl.
I plan to use my time here to learn Chinese and meet many beautiful girls. So i have to put up with this as long as i can for now. Not exactly an Alpha situation, but I've got to build myself up into a better position strategically since i don't want to leave yet.
I talked to her about it and she made an effort to be more affectionate towards me and even made an effort to have more sex, but it is abit too late now, I'm already bored, plus i feel like I'm a just 1 level above a dog to her, just here to keep her company, make her cum when she wants to. I love doggy style and she complains about me being too big when i do it when in my opinion I'm not really.
Sounds like I'm in a better situation than you because my wife actually has sex with me sometimes but just once per week or so. Often she has some kind of excuse though. Not only this but she has no patience at all and is way too worried about us being clean so we can't have spontaneous sex, everything has to be planned and usually she will only do it at night when she is in bed or in the morning when we're both in bed together.
One time i got her to buy some sexy outfits online, she said "ok if you buy them" so they came and she went crazy about it, telling me I'm a pervert and she won't wear them, just lingerie and a fishnet body stocking that looked hot in the girl in the picture. Finally got her to wear what i bought after arguments.
Anyway, I'm still here because i want other Chinese girls and i get easy access to a visa this way. Now i don't really feel like having sex with her so i rarely initiate and i find other girls who do want to.
Now i will stay until i make the contacts and a higher paying job i need to be able to stay here myself. Until then i play with other girls. I don't like this and before i came i never thought i would cheat but after being shouted at so much by her so much and having a lack of affection i don't care.
She hates me going to clubs alone, especially after she came with me one time and found out i added a girl i like to Wechat and another hot girl came to me and said i have beautiful eyes, then said she wants to find someone like me to my girl.
I plan to use my time here to learn Chinese and meet many beautiful girls. So i have to put up with this as long as i can for now. Not exactly an Alpha situation, but I've got to build myself up into a better position strategically since i don't want to leave yet.
