(10-02-2016, 10:08 AM)Shannon Wrote:(10-02-2016, 09:02 AM)Rayhon Wrote: Day 27
Something significant happened.
I was at a bar with two of my friends. This unbelievably attractive waitress is our waitress. She takes some orders and then I ask her "what nationality are you from?" we played the guessing game.
I then told her "You must have some really attractive parents"
She smiled/laughed.
Anyways I was doing some non sexual conversation.
The whole experience with her i was the most loudest, alpha and intense eye contact with her then anyone in my group. She laughed at one of my jokes and I displayed very alpha behaviour in other ways.
The most significant thing that happened in my opinion is when she said "where you guys taking the party after?" and my buddy said something like "going to go home and sleep"
She said "That sounds like my type of party"
I immediately without thinking at all said a very sexual joke "You should come over sometime then"
LOOOOOOOL I never ever would have had the balls to say sonmething so sexually direct to a women that beautiful in a setting like that. In fact waitresses/cashiers/bartenders were one of my biggest flaws back in the day. They would intimidate em.
Anyways i fogot what what she said but I kinda mumbled after my sexual joke "I'm a bad guy" she said "Your a bad guy?"
I pointed at my temple and said "I got a dirty mind"
It was the most sexual / alpha thing I've ever done in a setting that is typically not sexual at all. (customer talking to cashier(edit:waitress))
Honestly it's insane. The hotter the women is the better I am with them.
I notice also my conversation just pours out of me and I just talk to them without having any Head clutter/noise with my thoughts. I don't THINK and do. I do and think about it later.
I like that aspect because it makes a person a natural. Naturals are just THAT way. Sublimnals have made me naturally high self esteem & confidence & sexual. I don't know if the waitress wanted to bang me or for me to ask her out. But I'm guessing for sure she must have been attracted to my high self esteem.
That being said waitresses get hit on all the time so maybe that type of direct game doesn't work. Any guys here have any advice?
I see you've met the autopilot.He's a pretty good pilot, isn't he?
It's pretty amazing. I am grateful for the changes that have been made to me. I'm also very excited to see how Overcome approach anxiety and NSFM will effect things. I'm extremely sexual, direct, confident and conversation flows. But i feel like NSFM & OAA would take me too another level.
I wouldn't say I'm a smooth talker necessarily in a don juan manner. But I have the most sexual demeanor I can think of out of everyone I know and any movie I've seen.
My best friend of 17 years that was at the bar when it happened with me told me 95 percent of what I said was PERFECT and the other 5 percent was a little much. He basically was saying that I was over the top.
And I don't disagree, I was EXTREMELY sexual and bold when interacting with that waitress. However I don't know if that attracted her greatly or not because I never asked her out or tried to ask her out after the whole situation.
It was "over the top" in the sense that I didn't give a FUCK about what other people thought or how she would react necessarily. I just said sexual shit at first nature without being uncomfortable or subtle about it.
Im not sure if I need to tone it down or keep doing what I'm doing. But I think I liked my interaction with her. Being direct = confidence and women love it right? Even though the setting was one that she couldn't act on my sexual forwardness based on society's norms and she didn't want to seem like a slut in front of my friends and others.
Honestly, I loved the feeling. Made me feel more like a man and embraced my sexuality more then ever before.
Only time comparable was on stage 3 of sex magnet when I almost had a 3 some and was making out with two women at the same time all night at my house cuddling eachother/rubbing eachother.
But DMSI has been much more profound, consistent, and natural with the results and sexuality that I now display.
I LOVE IT.
