09-25-2016, 02:45 PM
Sicko, neither you nor Dzemoo should have to explain yourselves or your beliefs to anyone on this forum.
I also came from a dark place and I actually am grateful for my early life experiences. They shaped me into who I am and I enjoy embracing those parts of my personality. Its why I can write the way I do, it's why I think the way that I do, and it's why I approach life the way I do.
Furthermore, you're right, you are who you are and you have your approaches. And, because this sub is designed to get women attracted to you and have sex with you - in that respect, it hasn't hit its goals. Healing and clearing is good - and I actually enjoyed that aspect of the sub more, but the effectiveness of getting someone laid on a repeated basis hasn't happened yet.
You're not wrong for highlighting those points.
And I also agree with you regarding the PUA community. As the old saying goes, even a broken clock tells the right time twice a day.
The thing that disappoints me more than all of that though is the blatant racism that was considered acceptable by RisingSon. He basically blasted every minority and even called on Chaos. Hell, I'm a minority. I didn't expect to come into any of that in this community.
I have enjoyed what DMSI has done for me, but after looking back at the effectiveness of the goals and reading many people's journals, I do think that 2.3 hit the goals more effectively. 2.4 has become something else entirely - and it has several positive points that I was able to get from using it, but, it hasn't been very effective overall on the attraction side. Perhaps it can be released as a mood enhancer or another type of healing sub all in and of itself, and perhaps from that perspective it would stop this debate.
At the end of the day, people who purchased this sub, purchased it with the intent of getting laid. Anyone who chides someone else on their ability to hit the very goal that they themselves wanted, is being a hypocrite.
I apologize to you and Dzemoo if any of my posts on this thread had offended either of you, since I was the one who made the suggestion for you guys to stay on 2.3.
I am also going to practice some of what I preach and go back to using 2.3 myself. After looking back at my initial journal and reviewing what happened in 2.4, there's a stark difference. For the objective of getting women, DMSI v2.3 is the one that works for me. For the objective of potentially dealing with thoughts that related back to my youth and clearing away some of my misgivings, 2.4 was effective for that.
I'll go back to 2.4 at some point in the future perhaps.
Anyway, with regards to meeting the goals that this sub is designed to do, I think you and Dzemoo actually have the most legitimate say with it.
I also came from a dark place and I actually am grateful for my early life experiences. They shaped me into who I am and I enjoy embracing those parts of my personality. Its why I can write the way I do, it's why I think the way that I do, and it's why I approach life the way I do.
Furthermore, you're right, you are who you are and you have your approaches. And, because this sub is designed to get women attracted to you and have sex with you - in that respect, it hasn't hit its goals. Healing and clearing is good - and I actually enjoyed that aspect of the sub more, but the effectiveness of getting someone laid on a repeated basis hasn't happened yet.
You're not wrong for highlighting those points.
And I also agree with you regarding the PUA community. As the old saying goes, even a broken clock tells the right time twice a day.
The thing that disappoints me more than all of that though is the blatant racism that was considered acceptable by RisingSon. He basically blasted every minority and even called on Chaos. Hell, I'm a minority. I didn't expect to come into any of that in this community.
I have enjoyed what DMSI has done for me, but after looking back at the effectiveness of the goals and reading many people's journals, I do think that 2.3 hit the goals more effectively. 2.4 has become something else entirely - and it has several positive points that I was able to get from using it, but, it hasn't been very effective overall on the attraction side. Perhaps it can be released as a mood enhancer or another type of healing sub all in and of itself, and perhaps from that perspective it would stop this debate.
At the end of the day, people who purchased this sub, purchased it with the intent of getting laid. Anyone who chides someone else on their ability to hit the very goal that they themselves wanted, is being a hypocrite.
I apologize to you and Dzemoo if any of my posts on this thread had offended either of you, since I was the one who made the suggestion for you guys to stay on 2.3.
I am also going to practice some of what I preach and go back to using 2.3 myself. After looking back at my initial journal and reviewing what happened in 2.4, there's a stark difference. For the objective of getting women, DMSI v2.3 is the one that works for me. For the objective of potentially dealing with thoughts that related back to my youth and clearing away some of my misgivings, 2.4 was effective for that.
I'll go back to 2.4 at some point in the future perhaps.
Anyway, with regards to meeting the goals that this sub is designed to do, I think you and Dzemoo actually have the most legitimate say with it.
