09-25-2016, 11:31 AM
(09-25-2016, 11:12 AM)Mr. Anderson Wrote: I think there is a big misunderstanding about the healing/clearing in DMSI. It is intended to clear all the stuff that prevent taking action and all the stuff that is causing some kind of self sabotage on the way to get pussy and not turning you into a zen monk. If I would tell you how close I was to get sex several times and how strange way of self sabotage I experienced you probably wouldn't even believe me. That's what the healing is for. You, Sick or Chaos don't need the healing to get pussy at all. You probably only need it to get healthier pussy.
Exactly. There'd be times when I had a choice of pussy, and I chose the more damaged chick and hamstered it away. Of course, only for her to end up being a royal bitch who put me through a lot of shit that's hurting my progress now.
You can take action and heal at the same time, just like I'm doing. You guys are trying to turn it into this attack on masculinity, this "I'm better than you because I don't want to heal" type of thing. Shaming, like society does. And that's kinda fucked up. For real.
Dzemoo -- You mentioned to Shannon that you've seen more pussy than more of the guys on the board. Okay, probably true. Now, what's the trade off? Do you feel fulfilled in life because you're banging chicks every night?
I had a lot of friends that were huge in the San Diego PUA scene. I went to this one guy's 300 party -- dude had banged 300 women. You know what he told me? That he was going to get to 600 and then he was going to kill himself. That was his life. Going to a crummy job and then going out to bang two or three women a night.
If that's the path you guys want to take, then by all means, do that. I won't judge. But, that's not the path I'm going to take, nor can I sit around and watch others be shamed because their goals don't align with yours.