08-06-2011, 08:22 AM
(This post was last modified: 08-06-2011, 08:51 AM by LionMonkey.)
Hey Roy, I appreciate the feedback. It gave a lot of insight to me.
What I've been doing with this is,
I talked with some buddies about it and they think that this girl needs a lot of security because of her insecurities. I think they are right.
I was doubting about this girl for trying to manipulate me but deepest down, when I look her in the eyes, I sense that she isn't consciously doing so. I think it's her insecurities and also that she doesn't know what she wants that makes her naturally act like she does.
I'll invite her to be with me in other venues than in the bedroom, I just tend to act on my natural instincts when I'm with a beautiful girl in the bedroom. It's like I can't think of anything but just being with her and I naturally try to initiate sex whenever I have a sense for it.. sometimes too much though, I guess :-)
Thanks again Roy. It makes sense. I have told this girl that I'm not looking for anything serious but I wouldn't mind to settle down if the right one came by and I think that's also why she is afraid to get hurt.
I'll see how it goes and get to know her more, so I can make up my mind.
Ohh btw. this girl said she didn't like her breasts. I think they are lovely. Maybe she also has BDD? I'm not sure if I want to ask her that.
- LM
What I've been doing with this is,
I talked with some buddies about it and they think that this girl needs a lot of security because of her insecurities. I think they are right.
I was doubting about this girl for trying to manipulate me but deepest down, when I look her in the eyes, I sense that she isn't consciously doing so. I think it's her insecurities and also that she doesn't know what she wants that makes her naturally act like she does.
I'll invite her to be with me in other venues than in the bedroom, I just tend to act on my natural instincts when I'm with a beautiful girl in the bedroom. It's like I can't think of anything but just being with her and I naturally try to initiate sex whenever I have a sense for it.. sometimes too much though, I guess :-)
Thanks again Roy. It makes sense. I have told this girl that I'm not looking for anything serious but I wouldn't mind to settle down if the right one came by and I think that's also why she is afraid to get hurt.
I'll see how it goes and get to know her more, so I can make up my mind.
Ohh btw. this girl said she didn't like her breasts. I think they are lovely. Maybe she also has BDD? I'm not sure if I want to ask her that.
- LM
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
