So I recently found out a friend of mine that I had become interested in was in a relationship with another guy. Shucks, oh well. but let me start over for a second.
If i can recall details correctly, we spoke on Saturday. We've been long time friends since high school, it's been 6 years since we met each other. What happened is that on Saturday we spoke on the phone and she told me some guy confessed that he wanted to be in a relationship with her. Cool. Too bad because I literally wanted to talk to her about the exact same thing. So I said on the phone that same night (I wasn't panicked or anything) that i wanted to give our relationship a shot by moving it to the next level.
The problem? She may have told me some guy had wanted to be in a relationship with her, but she neglected to tell me after I told her. On her FB, the next day (sunday) she put that she was in a relationship. We spoke that same night about making plans to meet up later in the week to hang out and give this relationship a shot. I was pretty clear about it and we made plans.
Fast forward to Monday night, I go on her FB and then i see her being in a relationship. I text her to call me. She does the next day.
My reaction? It's cool she's in a relationship with another guy. Things like this happen. What's not cool is that she neglected to tell me that she was in a relationship after i told her I wanted to give us a shot, since we had spoken another time since she got in her relationship. I told her that was completely disrespectful not because she chose some other guy but because even as friends she couldn't communicate with me that she was already in a relationship.
What did I do... So I've told her before that we'd pretty much always be friends. But that was in the past, when we were friends. i told her that I know I said we'd always be friends, but you crapped all over that. and since she didn't hold the same standard as I do when it comes to being friends that she just shouldn't talk to me at all. I don't have time for people who don't respect each other.
And that is the story of how my 6 year friendship died overnight. I needed to vent. Feel free to comment.
Edit: On one last note, we made plans for Saturday. I don't think it's happening anymore. Who makes plans with a guy who is in them without telling them they're in a relationship already?
Total utter disrespect.
Anyone think I'm overreacting?
If i can recall details correctly, we spoke on Saturday. We've been long time friends since high school, it's been 6 years since we met each other. What happened is that on Saturday we spoke on the phone and she told me some guy confessed that he wanted to be in a relationship with her. Cool. Too bad because I literally wanted to talk to her about the exact same thing. So I said on the phone that same night (I wasn't panicked or anything) that i wanted to give our relationship a shot by moving it to the next level.
The problem? She may have told me some guy had wanted to be in a relationship with her, but she neglected to tell me after I told her. On her FB, the next day (sunday) she put that she was in a relationship. We spoke that same night about making plans to meet up later in the week to hang out and give this relationship a shot. I was pretty clear about it and we made plans.
Fast forward to Monday night, I go on her FB and then i see her being in a relationship. I text her to call me. She does the next day.
My reaction? It's cool she's in a relationship with another guy. Things like this happen. What's not cool is that she neglected to tell me that she was in a relationship after i told her I wanted to give us a shot, since we had spoken another time since she got in her relationship. I told her that was completely disrespectful not because she chose some other guy but because even as friends she couldn't communicate with me that she was already in a relationship.
What did I do... So I've told her before that we'd pretty much always be friends. But that was in the past, when we were friends. i told her that I know I said we'd always be friends, but you crapped all over that. and since she didn't hold the same standard as I do when it comes to being friends that she just shouldn't talk to me at all. I don't have time for people who don't respect each other.
And that is the story of how my 6 year friendship died overnight. I needed to vent. Feel free to comment.
Edit: On one last note, we made plans for Saturday. I don't think it's happening anymore. Who makes plans with a guy who is in them without telling them they're in a relationship already?
Total utter disrespect.
Anyone think I'm overreacting?
