09-09-2016, 09:13 AM
(09-09-2016, 08:31 AM)Rayhon Wrote: This seems insignificant but dealing with authority figures like bosses has been one of my biggest insecuritys. TBH I KNOW that BASE 2.1 has helped me in this aspect as well so it's not just because of DMSI.
But I do feel that DMSI has given me much more confidence, comfort and assertiveness in dealing with my boss. I also wasn't sensitive and scared of him when he was yelling at me and treating me like a slave. SCREAMING at me for nothing. (literally, he just acts like a baby)
Dealing with authority figures has always been a BIG problem of mine. I grew up in a society where authority figures were given more respect than required and even though I am now in a "free" society, I still have that habit of false respect hindering my personal development.
Dang! As I write this, I realise I got the most screaming from my mum, which may have affected the way I deal with women. I always avoid a situation of them screaming at me, thereby conditioning myself to always walk on eggshells around them. Thank you for sharing this. I may have to jump into the DMSI river sooner that I thought. I will do it even if all I get is healing in this particular area. (Of course, I know this can never be the only thing I get from DMSI
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Confront your problems. Walk away from BS. Seek wisdom to know the difference.
