07-20-2011, 08:27 AM
(This post was last modified: 07-20-2011, 12:06 PM by LionMonkey.)
Stage 1 - Day 10,
Yesterday I met with an old friend of mine. Had a lot to catch up. I was aware of how we interacted. It was something I was blindly doing before, which wasn't to my benefit at all.
Now that I am aware of it, I also see that I come through with the biggest impact in an interaction, when I have a powerful energy behind when I'm saying things.
I went to one of my buddies workplace, a nice café, when I parted with my old friend.
My buddy's secret girlfriend was there and we talked for the first time. The conversation died out and I said, "let's join the others".
We were about 9 people, when the café had closed and the vibe was kinda dizzy because there was a lot of talk about work.
My buddy's girl, looked at me all the time but I can't do it to my buddy, so I did nothing about it.
I was silent for some time because nothing interesting was going on and the vibe was just kinda boring.
Anyways, when I did say something, I came through but as mentioned before, it was with the feeling behind it when I speak and I did it pretty loud, like almost taking space when I spoke.
I'm 10 days in stage 1, so I don't know if it is really this (loud) way that is the most effective in those situations hmm..
Wondering what the hell can happen with the rest stages, when stage 1 already has this big influence on the way things are happening around me lately
- LM
Yesterday I met with an old friend of mine. Had a lot to catch up. I was aware of how we interacted. It was something I was blindly doing before, which wasn't to my benefit at all.
Now that I am aware of it, I also see that I come through with the biggest impact in an interaction, when I have a powerful energy behind when I'm saying things.
I went to one of my buddies workplace, a nice café, when I parted with my old friend.
My buddy's secret girlfriend was there and we talked for the first time. The conversation died out and I said, "let's join the others".
We were about 9 people, when the café had closed and the vibe was kinda dizzy because there was a lot of talk about work.
My buddy's girl, looked at me all the time but I can't do it to my buddy, so I did nothing about it.
I was silent for some time because nothing interesting was going on and the vibe was just kinda boring.
Anyways, when I did say something, I came through but as mentioned before, it was with the feeling behind it when I speak and I did it pretty loud, like almost taking space when I spoke.
I'm 10 days in stage 1, so I don't know if it is really this (loud) way that is the most effective in those situations hmm..
Wondering what the hell can happen with the rest stages, when stage 1 already has this big influence on the way things are happening around me lately
- LM
1. Do whatever you want.. risk whatever your gut tells you because.. you know you have good intentions.
2. Pressure forms the man.
3. Clarity gives space for better decisions.
