Interesting, i'm curious to what this could cause.
Most of the girls I visualized was just for a reference. But I did visualize like this before a date, and it didn't happen that night but it did the next night.
Though she does seem a bit addicted to me and won't stop sending me messages.
I seen it as being able to generate the feeling of already 'having it' so then I don't have to be needy and crave for it, but instead just relax and enjoy the situation. I didn't really see it as a way of manipulating them.
There was also a realization and an intent that I uncovered while doing this.
The intent/thought of "If this is something that don't want then it will cause them to move away from me and that's okay. But if it is an outcome that they desire with me then it will draw them in more."
And with that intent, I don't see it being manipulative.
But I am asking why you say that so that I can understand and avoid that negative stuff happening.
-Ben
Most of the girls I visualized was just for a reference. But I did visualize like this before a date, and it didn't happen that night but it did the next night.
Though she does seem a bit addicted to me and won't stop sending me messages.
I seen it as being able to generate the feeling of already 'having it' so then I don't have to be needy and crave for it, but instead just relax and enjoy the situation. I didn't really see it as a way of manipulating them.
There was also a realization and an intent that I uncovered while doing this.
The intent/thought of "If this is something that don't want then it will cause them to move away from me and that's okay. But if it is an outcome that they desire with me then it will draw them in more."
And with that intent, I don't see it being manipulative.
But I am asking why you say that so that I can understand and avoid that negative stuff happening.
-Ben
