(08-20-2016, 09:01 AM)Sickologist Wrote: Why didn't you ask her out in person instead, while you were hanging out? Or just seperate her from the group. Their bodies don't lie, man.
Can you give some examples of what your buddy says to girls?
PS, the so called "honest approach" (not sure how honest it is) works. In fact, it's been working for men over the entire world for centuries.
And in my experience, it's more that they seek out a guy who are higher status than them. Some dude playing hard to get or teasing girls are often mistaken for higher status.
I didn't think to ask her out in person or even realize she's someone I'd want to date until I went home & thought about it for the next few days.
Before she responded to message on facebook I was thinking that if I saw her again in person I would seperate her from the group and ask her out.
You're definitely right, that would have been more effective as it shows more confidence.
I think the "honest approach" works really well in daygame and street approaches. I used to go around picking up women when I was younger to help overcome my fear of women.
And I had some great results that I didn't take anywhere because I was too insecure to go out with them. but yes being straight up with them in person almost always worked for me.
I haven't done a cold approach in a long time, I usually meet women indirectly at the beach or dog park. I still approach anxiety but I'm comftorable tlaking to women and I think if I did approach I would do well.
So I should man up and start approaching women again like I used too when I was insecure/social anxiety (for a few months I did it because I really wanted to become a ladys man)
