07-17-2011, 10:05 AM
I'm not sure what you mean by how long stage 5 is, lionmonkey.
I'll answer based on what I believe you're asking, but I would say stage 5 is just as long as any other stage, 32 days.
I'm about 10 days into stage 6. Things are so difficult to explain what's going on in this stage. AM, i believe was designed to make a man more alpha, but the definition of alpha doesn't fit what one may expect. It really is just a state of being comfortable with yourself, balancing out your humility with your ego. Now I'm not perfect with any such thing, but it seems to me this is a major goal in becoming more comfortable with yourself.
Really though, i'm not sure what stage 6 is doing so far. This is too difficult to describe but I have had some sexy dreams where women are doing things to me, or with me. Whichever. But either way i'm just here to finish the ride that i started. And wow, what can i say except that 5 months ago i was looking for approval and was unsure of myself when it came to anything, but now I am completely comfortable with myself.
One thing I'm wondering or becoming worried about is that I've become so picky when it comes to women that it seems there are no women around that I find attractive. Can someone (could use shannon's wisdom right about here) explain what's going on here?
To further elaborate, I find some women pretty, some women cute (but not attracted to them), and then there are the women which I find attractive. It's that gut feeling that you know you have to talk to them. I haven't felt that in a few months since starting AM and I'll admit before I started this program I was at an all time low when it came to self esteem. I lost my v-card to the first girl who wanted to get with me. She fell into the cute category but not attracted with that gut feeling that you have to get to know her. Ok great, but back then I still found women attractive with that feeling, and now it feels like i no longer get that feeling around. Isn't a bit of nervousness good when it comes to meeting women? Or are we essentially being unaffected by this stuff just to protect ourselves?
This is a difficult matter to say on. I want to be attracted to girls but I'm finding it difficult to see which girls I am attracted to. I'll admit sometimes I see a girl in the streets and I just think damn i'd like to talk to her but then i don't because the cold approach style doesn't work well with me.
And those women I actually find cute or pretty. If i think about being with them, i think to myself that I can actually do better than that. Which, is probably true but i'm at a loss right here. Am I being too picky? Anyone who has some words of wisdom please chime in because I'm all ears to listening.
I'll answer based on what I believe you're asking, but I would say stage 5 is just as long as any other stage, 32 days.
I'm about 10 days into stage 6. Things are so difficult to explain what's going on in this stage. AM, i believe was designed to make a man more alpha, but the definition of alpha doesn't fit what one may expect. It really is just a state of being comfortable with yourself, balancing out your humility with your ego. Now I'm not perfect with any such thing, but it seems to me this is a major goal in becoming more comfortable with yourself.
Really though, i'm not sure what stage 6 is doing so far. This is too difficult to describe but I have had some sexy dreams where women are doing things to me, or with me. Whichever. But either way i'm just here to finish the ride that i started. And wow, what can i say except that 5 months ago i was looking for approval and was unsure of myself when it came to anything, but now I am completely comfortable with myself.
One thing I'm wondering or becoming worried about is that I've become so picky when it comes to women that it seems there are no women around that I find attractive. Can someone (could use shannon's wisdom right about here) explain what's going on here?
To further elaborate, I find some women pretty, some women cute (but not attracted to them), and then there are the women which I find attractive. It's that gut feeling that you know you have to talk to them. I haven't felt that in a few months since starting AM and I'll admit before I started this program I was at an all time low when it came to self esteem. I lost my v-card to the first girl who wanted to get with me. She fell into the cute category but not attracted with that gut feeling that you have to get to know her. Ok great, but back then I still found women attractive with that feeling, and now it feels like i no longer get that feeling around. Isn't a bit of nervousness good when it comes to meeting women? Or are we essentially being unaffected by this stuff just to protect ourselves?
This is a difficult matter to say on. I want to be attracted to girls but I'm finding it difficult to see which girls I am attracted to. I'll admit sometimes I see a girl in the streets and I just think damn i'd like to talk to her but then i don't because the cold approach style doesn't work well with me.
And those women I actually find cute or pretty. If i think about being with them, i think to myself that I can actually do better than that. Which, is probably true but i'm at a loss right here. Am I being too picky? Anyone who has some words of wisdom please chime in because I'm all ears to listening.
