06-27-2011, 09:20 AM
I'm about half way into Part II of AM2011 and second month of AOS.
I haven't really noticed any resistance like other people have talked about previously.
I have noticed I've been noticing a lot more when people are asking me to do stuff that its not my responsibility to do.
This past week people asked me to do things they were fully capable of doing themselves so I just said "No" and told them to do it and how they should do it. I wasn't angry or rude in how I did it, just factual. In the past I would have just done what they said because I wouldn't have thought it was worth the tension. Telling them "No" didn't really create much tension at all and I found myself not caring if it did because they shouldn't have told me what to do in the first place.
I haven't really noticed any resistance like other people have talked about previously.
I have noticed I've been noticing a lot more when people are asking me to do stuff that its not my responsibility to do.
This past week people asked me to do things they were fully capable of doing themselves so I just said "No" and told them to do it and how they should do it. I wasn't angry or rude in how I did it, just factual. In the past I would have just done what they said because I wouldn't have thought it was worth the tension. Telling them "No" didn't really create much tension at all and I found myself not caring if it did because they shouldn't have told me what to do in the first place.