07-08-2016, 06:29 PM
(07-08-2016, 05:53 PM)ALI6NMENT Wrote:(07-08-2016, 04:12 PM)Shannon Wrote: I would say that "nofap" means "no orgasm" because ANY orgasm produces the same results. Mastubating to porn has a different effect, but the orgasm is always the same regardless in how it affects your body. So having someone come give you a happy ending is still the same thing. Just you're pretending that it's somehow different because you didn't do it to yourself. Masturation, sex, and happy endings are all the exact same thing; the key is moderation and avoiding pornography.
I think basically what you're experiencing is a combination of the program flooding you with sexual energy, and you resisting part of the programming of the subliminal (the part that tells you to project that energy into the world around you, and cause sex with a woman to happen thereby).
Turning off the sex drive is a cop out. It's there because you need it. You just have to learn how to deal with it properly. You seem to have some issues that aren't finished being cleared yet.
Yeah I had a weird thing going on with nofap, every time I had no orgasm through self I would gain more confidence and notice women giving me more IOI, when I released my load by myself I would notice a decrease in confidence and attention/IOI from women.
So this is why I have been going with nofap, but as of late I am thinking that above what I just mentioned is a weird self fulfilling prophecy (one I would rather not have) and it's starting to lose its grip.
I feel more confident, attractive and self assured, for sure and I know I have issues but I am curious to see what this has in store for me next!
Also, if we don't make mistakes how we meant to learn from them? ....I'll just save myself some money next time and pay myself lol. I'll be rich in no time!
Pay yourself? Isn't that still PAYING FOR SEX?
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But on a serious note, I think you should focus on understanding your blockages internally, and explore them. Try to understand them rationally and release them.
Either way, enough of this program and you're going to get there, because reasons!
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!