05-17-2016, 07:43 AM
Too many guys think that being alpha male is the guy who beats up other guys or is the loudest in the room. A real alpha is cool and level headed. A few weeks ago this guy who tried to be alpha with me backed down after i spoke to him calmly.
At first he tried to enter my personal space speaking loudly. I automatically put my hands out in a submissive posture and said to him "hey i am not looking for any trouble ok".
Placing hands out in a submissive posture may seem gay to some people here but its two fold. First it shows you are humble, second it shows you have no weapons to hide and third it protects the personal space.
This is what i call the fence. Creating a barrier between you and the guy. Anyway after speaking to him calmly be backed off. Also its a sneaky to do a hand smash into his face if he violates your personal space
At first he tried to enter my personal space speaking loudly. I automatically put my hands out in a submissive posture and said to him "hey i am not looking for any trouble ok".
Placing hands out in a submissive posture may seem gay to some people here but its two fold. First it shows you are humble, second it shows you have no weapons to hide and third it protects the personal space.
This is what i call the fence. Creating a barrier between you and the guy. Anyway after speaking to him calmly be backed off. Also its a sneaky to do a hand smash into his face if he violates your personal space
