(04-29-2016, 08:41 AM)wolverine_i_am Wrote: The AM>WM>SM path is only for the VERY VERY inexperienced, those who do have not a lot of skills with chatting up and flirting with girls. I would suggest that path for the absolute beginner too, to make sure they progress from beginning to mastery, to fill all the holes in their journey.
It's not the same for those who are already comfortable with socialising and flirting, but still inexperienced with sex. So SM3 is the one that would provide the most assistance to take things to another level.
Don't get me wrong. I'm not saying WM2 is useless. You just have to go for the one that's the most applicable to your level at this point in time.
In Jake's case, he is going on holiday in the near future, so he doesn't have time to play around with WM2 then SM3, or SM3 then WM2. He'll have to go with the one that's more catered to his current level of seducing girls.
Well right now I am in a situation where I can get attractions pretty easily after all AM runs. Having an interesting conversation is really no problem, and so does pulling the trigger.
The only problems I want to fix are listed below. Feel free to suggest which subs I can run. I hope the travel can help me hone my seduction skills too.
1. Really get used to cold approaching.
I know I have the ability to cold approach 100%, but I can't do it on my own for some reasons. I have done it for quite a few times in the past with a group of people, but I can't do it when I am by myself, like walking down a street. It's like there are some kind of barriers holding me back, not particularly fear. When I actually do it there isn't that much problem tbh. A part of me still thinks I am pretty "naive" or "inexperienced", and don't have what it takes to bring them sexual experience, considering I am in my early 20's. I feel particularly incapable when I am with older women. I am not ashamed to admit I really love mature women, but I am not yet at a level to seduce them freely due to the lack of experience.
2. Having the ability to "pull" instantly.
I really like the idea of same day lay, so getting laid in as little time as possible definitely appeals to me. I don't really care about having romance as that part is fulfilled in my life already, just sex will be enough. I have a pretty nice open/close ratios during night time, but again I hope to do it myself this time instead of with a bunch of people.
PS. Writing until now I really realize how I need to go out tremendously more by myself. Maybe I can borrow something from Dzemoo or others.
3. Be "zen" during seduction.
I feel a lot of burdens when I want to approach a girl. Most of the time when I unconsciously interact I feel absolutely fine, but when I think about "approaching" my mind freezes. I can't "laser target", so to speak, which limits the speed of the amount of chicks I can potentially sleep with. lol
So putting it simply, my goal is really about having strong personal independence to seduce women, and not get bothered emotionally by anything/anyone whatsoever. I am what you would see as the "artistic seducer" type which occasionally gets sensitive between social interactions but also love sex and women. It can become an issue if I were to "shot-gun" my approaches as they do fuck up my emotions from time to time. Regardless, my ultimate goal is to have a really strong skillset that I can seduce any woman freely with great close rates, and integrate that into my life that it becomes unthinking. The "do" part in my life is what is lacking right now. I need a sub that will push me to interact with women more in respite of fear and discomfort, and will make me invincible in terms of emotional calm. That's it.
AM5 -> AM6 -> BASE -> AM6 -> BASE -> AM6(Current)
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