04-19-2011, 10:53 AM
Shannon, a few questions:
Question 1: How does female attraction assist me in my alpha quest. Why cultivate new flowers in my garden when I have no desire to enjoy them. Under these conditions the flower is seen as a weed. It seems a waist of energy, that is unless the cultivation of the flower is a by-product of the gardens real purpose, a nice extra, but not its primary reason for existence.
Question 2: Can you clarify the above statement?
Question 3: So what confidence is AM11 training me for. Its not confidence in all aspects of my life. At the end of AM11 I would come off as cocky if I thought I could dance like a professional. Maybe I'm not understanding the definition of confidence. As stated in the above posts, confidence is a knowledge of ability. I know I'm better than others in a specific thing there for I have confidence to the edge of cocky. AM11 is not making me a better dancer so if my confidence in my dancing ability was on the edge of cocky, because I lack the dancing foundation I'm not on the edge of cocky, I'm just cocky (in other words I'm compensating).
(04-13-2011, 12:35 PM)Shannon Wrote: ...confidence on the verge of cockiness is very attractive to women..
Question 1: How does female attraction assist me in my alpha quest. Why cultivate new flowers in my garden when I have no desire to enjoy them. Under these conditions the flower is seen as a weed. It seems a waist of energy, that is unless the cultivation of the flower is a by-product of the gardens real purpose, a nice extra, but not its primary reason for existence.
(04-13-2011, 12:35 PM)Shannon Wrote: confidence that comes from knowing without the shadow of a doubt that you know what's what and you can, period.
Question 2: Can you clarify the above statement?
Question 3: So what confidence is AM11 training me for. Its not confidence in all aspects of my life. At the end of AM11 I would come off as cocky if I thought I could dance like a professional. Maybe I'm not understanding the definition of confidence. As stated in the above posts, confidence is a knowledge of ability. I know I'm better than others in a specific thing there for I have confidence to the edge of cocky. AM11 is not making me a better dancer so if my confidence in my dancing ability was on the edge of cocky, because I lack the dancing foundation I'm not on the edge of cocky, I'm just cocky (in other words I'm compensating).