(03-23-2011, 04:54 PM)woceyes Wrote: today was funny. I had seen my "Fiancee" but didn't get a chance to say morning and tease her a bit. So my friend who works in the same area as her had come down to get something from my line. I asked him if he could say "Your ex says hi, and that he hopes the pool boy was worth it because you ruined it for us."
Well he did he also added and the milkman. Well when i had caught up with her at lunch she said to me "lol the milkman err i mean the pool boy." "i go wait! you did the milkman too, not just the pool boy?"
she of course laughed. Then i go "who else the gardner, the mailman, and the paperboy?" This of course made her laugh even more. She replies I haven't given anyone one pleasure and no one has given me pleasure. In fact i give my self pleasure."
I of course was thrown off on that last statement. My friend said i should have replied well ill give you pleasure but I didn't. So my question to you guys is what would you have said or done?
O yes i borrowed that from Ryan thanks man lol
Hey man,
I know I'm a bit late with this but here's my take on it... BTW I have no clue what you borrowed from me lol.
Honestly, do not use your friends line lol, that's cheesy and sounds like something a typical guy would say. Is this at school? If so, are you comfortable actually making out with this girl at school? If you want to successfully make out with this girl, you need to really feel that you can do so... What I mean by that is there will be a natural instinct that it is ok to take things further. I would have escalated it if you felt ok doing so. Take baby steps for now, you don't need to go for ALL of it at once. Grab her hand, walk with her a little. Let go of it, grab it again (push/pull makes them extremely attracted). Push her away at times and pull her back in at times. Grab it, push her off/let go and saying "Grr who said you could hold my hand?!" then smile and grab her hand again. This girl sounds very, very playful which is great for you. When the time is right for kissing, you'll know. Just place your hand on the side of her head and pull her in. Usually the kino of holding hands, touching will make appearance before hand and let you know, it's ok to proceed further. Feel things out all the way towards sex. Be aggressive or be romantic, whichever mood you feel is right. Though I really enjoy pushing a girl up against me on a wall.
You could try other things then holding hands if you feel uncomfortable with that too. Touching her back, shoulders, arm around shoulder, tickling (ask her if she's ticklish and explore her ticklish spots lol upper arms, belly, knees, thighs, back, neck), arms around waist from behind, if you're near a lake/river/fountain/pool scare her like you're going to push her in and then pull her back to you. Oh and if you are not feeling this at school, that's ok, get her out of the school zone quickly. Ask her out for a drink, coffee, or something, it's usually more comfortable.
This is how it works for me:
Together -> Flirting/talking -> Touching -> Kissing -> Intimate touching/feeling -> Oral -> Sex
