03-13-2016, 04:06 PM
I've gone through this myself. I used to when doing security attract tons of fights, people wanted to have a go at me all the time. My mates used to joke they would throw somebody out and they would be like "fuck you, you threw me out, i'm going to fight Ben" and would always say "oh you made another new friend tonight".
Yes part of it was how I reacted badly with anger and enflamed situations. But even without that I just attracted it, like people sought me out to fight me.
It was an energy or something I was projecting. During AM 2011 and alot of EFT coaching, working on anger and other stuff I become alot more calm, and attracted way less of it.
Stopping security for about 5 years and doing it now, with how I am a different person now none of that has happened, not that i'm doing it regularly. Of course 1 or 2 people were upset that I threw them out and we're being verbal but it didn't go anywhere near physical and I didn't kick it off because of my bad reactions as I am calm now and don't want to fight unless I have to.
And keep in mind, I don't know how well you've known him. But if you just meet a guy and he starts telling you how tough he is straight away, it's a pretty sure bet he is full of shit.
Yes part of it was how I reacted badly with anger and enflamed situations. But even without that I just attracted it, like people sought me out to fight me.
It was an energy or something I was projecting. During AM 2011 and alot of EFT coaching, working on anger and other stuff I become alot more calm, and attracted way less of it.
Stopping security for about 5 years and doing it now, with how I am a different person now none of that has happened, not that i'm doing it regularly. Of course 1 or 2 people were upset that I threw them out and we're being verbal but it didn't go anywhere near physical and I didn't kick it off because of my bad reactions as I am calm now and don't want to fight unless I have to.
And keep in mind, I don't know how well you've known him. But if you just meet a guy and he starts telling you how tough he is straight away, it's a pretty sure bet he is full of shit.
