04-13-2011, 03:20 PM
(04-13-2011, 12:35 PM)Shannon Wrote: Cocky jerk isn't a bad thing, as long as it has a purpose, which in this case, it does. When one starts the alpha set, usually, the pendulum is all the way to the left side (so to speak) and being held in place. When the alpha set has it's initial impact, the pendulum is released and the result is an overbalance to the right side, and again a situation in which things are not as they should be. But this imbalance teaches you, along with your past experience of imbalance in the other direction, how to find balance. Jerk is not the goal, but the process needs the jerk to find the goal.
Patti, I would disagree with you slightly and say that confidence on the verge of cockiness is very attractive to women, in my experience. And cockiness is attractive to girls. The former is the confidence that comes from knowing without the shadow of a doubt that you know what's what and you can, period. Cockiness is a state of imbalance, which isn't healthy. So, in my experience, girls who have not learned to differentiate the two yet - and who have not come to appreciate the difference in the men who express confidence versus cockiness - seem to like cockiness. Women, who have had some time to become more mature, prefer men who take it to the edge of cockiness, but not over that line.
And yes, I read all of your post, AYD.
You have nothing to worry about with the manifestation portion of the AM2011 set. It was designed with married men in consideration.
Well, I have yet to meet the woman that says, "see that cocky guy over there, that's the one I wanna take home"! He's usually the one we're all rolling our eyes at saying, "OMG just GO AWAY"! Of course I can only speak for myself and the woman/girls I know. The "bad boy" is a whole different story. He's appealing because he's slightly daring and edgy. Although the usual saying is, date the bad boy but marry the good guy.
If you're searching for that one person that will change your life, take a look in the mirror!
