09-02-2020, 11:13 AM
(08-25-2020, 07:23 PM)Shannon Wrote:Quote:Also, there would be no reason for insecurity due to other women because we don't see any other women while we're there, have sex every day, and hangout together the whole time.
Ah, but there lies the rub: reason isn't what guides these responses that result in weight gain. It is the irrational, emotional and instinctual parts of the self that do that. Anything BUT reason and logic.
Quote:She does have a LOT of anxiety about the Leftist movement that is taking over parts of cities in the US. She and I had experience when we lived in latinamerica regarding such political movements and how destructive they can be and how they can permanently change the way of life for the worse. I wonder if this increased anxiety is one of the reasons for the weight spike. Double-whammy, increased cortisol from the worry and increased intake of food due to the anxiety? Now that I think of it, that sounds very likely.
I have found that in virtually every case I have come across while I was researching the root causes of weight gain, it always traced back to...
Fear.
For some reason, the subconscious seems to think that "more fat = more safety and security". In some cases, it actually is; bigger is less likely to be targetted for sexual assault, for example. But for seeing security from anxiety, that makes no sense. The best I can understand is that it is a side effect in some cases of seeking to recall deeply primal feelings of security that were first experienced very young in life, perhaps while being held and nursed by mom, or fed while the person was safe.
But it always seems to trace back to fear. Even in a lot of cases I looked at where the person was diagnosed with hormonal disorders, there were cases where I concluded that the hormonal disorder wasn't a cause, but a symptom that resulted in, and it was the result of subconscious fear. Remember that the subconscious acts as the control panel for the body. Manipulating hormones isn't very hard to do through subliminals, so we know the subconscious can do it. If the subconscious goal is to gain weight, then it will find a way.
This is why Weight Loss v6 took me 10 years to develop, and the next version has been in slow development for at least the last 3 years, bit by bit, in coming up with new approaches and new methods, testing those ideas and refining them. It's a very complex thing, and it's being run by the part of you that is everything BUT logical and rational.
Have to agree about the Fear thing....
There are so many fears-- the real primal ones, like having to flee due to unrest and not having money or food.
Food supplies begin depleted, shortages, etc.
Toilet paper shortages might have even been an analog for food shortages.