I really don't know why you all bother making long posts trying to give Sarge advice because he ignores and turns everything around because of 'something that happened once'.
'Once I didn't shower for 2 weeks and wore clothes like a homeless man and a woman smiled at me, i'm not gonna shower again'.
I gave up on it, i've even written things recently and deleted them because it's not achieving anything except to give him something to argue about which he loves.
You say you want advice, but you just want to argue and invalidate everything and come up with really weird reasons why it's not true because of "some random thing".
'Once I didn't shower for 2 weeks and wore clothes like a homeless man and a woman smiled at me, i'm not gonna shower again'.
I gave up on it, i've even written things recently and deleted them because it's not achieving anything except to give him something to argue about which he loves.
You say you want advice, but you just want to argue and invalidate everything and come up with really weird reasons why it's not true because of "some random thing".