09-05-2016, 11:08 AM
(09-05-2016, 10:27 AM)Dzemoo Wrote: That she is arguing with you is not a good sign i habe this on all attraction subs with healing in it, but we will see how 2.4 is compared to 2.3
Some history:
We've always been a semi-explosive couple. We've argued more than most our whole relationship. In the "major" areas of life, we are highly compatible. In other areas - not "deal-breaker" areas - we differ in opinion quite wildly. There are also many rule #4 issues at play in our relationship. I may have to ask Alpha360 to further enlighten me one of these days.
In this case, I think another change in my perceived value has her feeling "smaller," and she either needs to take me down a peg, or needs me to reassure her. I just wasn't in the mood this morning to reassure her. And sometimes a person needs to suck-it-up and figure out how to value themselves.
She went upstairs to sleep for a few hours, and after giving me a sullen look, we're back to being "just fine." She's talking to me, and hasn't brought up what happened this morning.