(05-13-2019, 08:07 AM)Infinite Wrote: Zane, It makes me feel so good to hear you say that you found such an amazing sub. Now I'm curious about which sub you will switch to if and when you ever want to try a different sub.

I believe that the FRM in SO's sub has had an influence on me. Before he got on USLM, I would have been too fearful (the fear would have appeared to be caution and discretion) to move to a beautiful house, simply because it was moving to a different house. Forget about moving to a new neighborhood, that would have caused anxiety, stress, and lots of consideration. I know it sounds ridiculous, but something about the way that I was brought up influenced me to be this way. I remember a relative (who I don't even like) once said that she would never move unless she was sure that moving wasn't getting out of her perfect call in life, because what if she moved and then died for moving there? Her reasoning affected me, and did me a lot of harm, but now I've been set free from that way of thinking. Not that I would take such a drastic change lightly, but just like when SO got that new job. We just knew that it was the right opportunity and that we should take it. Without the sub, we would have missed out on the opportunity and we would still be stuck in the same old rut. There is something about this sub that facilitates the user and their close loved one in making such big decisions.