(01-02-2019, 08:32 PM)lano1106 Wrote: she ended chasing me on FB a week later telling me that she couldn't stop thinking having sex with me

(01-03-2019, 11:42 AM)Shannon Wrote:

(01-03-2019, 11:16 AM)Choice Wrote:

(01-03-2019, 07:31 AM)Shannon Wrote:

(01-03-2019, 12:57 AM)dweller94 Wrote: I've identified a block that runs deeper than fear well for me anyway, my lack of success is to do with the fact that women reduce my overall happiness. I've noticed that if anything remotely threatens my peace of mind, like when you're in a relationship or dating you start thinking about stuff and it can destroy you depending on your attachment, DMSI so far doesn't seem to have helped get rid of this but I've identified the block, it's simple hoes make me unhappy, whether it's because I'm overthinking shit or I'm trying to see if there's more. If only I genuinely was care free and women wouldn't bring me down my life would be great and full of them, this is why DMSI isn't doing its thing for me (design goal) it's working alright but don't want to say much rn.

Point 1. This is not something that runs deeper than fear. It is fear. You fear that "women will reduce my overall happiness".

Point 2. Identifying that block is part of FRM working on that fear.

Point 3. All females != "hoes". If "hoes" bring you down then find a woman worth having, or at least having sex with.

Based on what you're saying here, you have concluded that "all women are hoes who will make me unhappy", which is definitely a false belief based in faulty logic, which generates FEAR.

And by getting you to the point that you were able to identify that FEAR consciously, FRM IS doing it's thing. Keep going.

Taking this example, if we remove the fear, wouldn't the faulty belief still remain, thus creating the fear again at some point? If we are going forward with FRM & no H&C how will this faulty belief be dealt with? As an analogue, the fear is the tree, but the roots are the beliefs that remain which means the tree (fear) will keep growing after cutting it down.

What causes fear runs deeper than beliefs. When we remove the fear, the beliefs that interact with the cause of the fear to create fear (when it is triggeted by beliefs) are automatically adjusted by the removal of the underlying cause of the fear. If the tree is fear, then FRM results in the tree and all of its roots, branches, twigs, leaves, flowers and fruit evaporating. Ceasing to exist.

(01-02-2019, 07:05 PM)Shannon Wrote:

(01-02-2019, 03:52 PM)Shadow2200 Wrote: My question is even with all this high tec anti fear mods healing and clearing and still we can't execute. Where is all this fear coming from and how it'd get so strong that even with the best subs in the world it still having a time at taming it?

It's relatively simple. When the subconscious fears something, the fear grows proportionate to how close that thing is to being experienced. It is how the subconscious thinks it is keeping itself "safe".

The problem is, the more powerful we go, the more likely the experience is, the more fear it generates, and the more nothing happens. Which is why I started with H&C and have moved on to FRM. We have to kill that fear. The situation now is about like holding a dragster back while it is at full blast throttle, using a rubber band. As long as that band holds, the car appears to be doing nothing even with the throttle open and the tires spinning and smoking. When it finally breaks, that car will jump like a bat out of hell to it's goal.

The final challenge is to figure out how to turn off fear without triggering it. And I am going to find the last key when the time is right, but at the moment, it apparently is not. Timing is everything, so they tell me.

What we are attempting to do here by removing the fear has never in the history of mankind been done successfully. So bear with me. It's not the easiest thing to do.

(01-03-2019, 11:52 AM)Oversoul Wrote: Shannon, will there ever be a 'remove all fears' sub? Thanks

(01-03-2019, 02:55 PM)dissonance Wrote: So if I'm reading correctly, there will be a 3.3.1-D which will be the same, except with the newest FRM version in it? I remember you said that you wouldn't be rebuilding 3.3D for the purpose of adding new FRM versions. Did you change your mind? If so... woooo!

(01-03-2019, 09:16 AM)Shannon Wrote:

(01-03-2019, 08:57 AM)RTBoss Wrote: I think it's a good idea. I'm a little disappointed at the same time, b/c being an emotionally-driven person, H&C always helped me quite a bit - especially on the anger and irritability front - and right now my tendency to overreact w/ anger is still on the rise. I always thought the combination of H&C w/ FRM would be the end-all-be-all. Perhaps after a few months, we'll get a chance to see that in action. :hrug::

I have run it through the models recently to see which of the following options produces the best results for DMSI:

1. No H&C, no FRM
2. H&C, No FRM
3. FRM, no H&C
4. H&C and FRM

The clear, hands down winner? Option #3. As I suspected.

That can only mean that when FRM is finished, it not only kills fear, it prevents the need for H&C.

(01-03-2019, 04:37 PM)FluffyBunny Wrote: Will 3.3.1D include healing again?

(01-03-2019, 04:41 PM)Hatman Wrote: I've experienced a major spurt of growth today and a manifestation of some important knowledge for myself. I also had some very unique dreams this morning.

Interestingly, this coincides with today's announcement of FRM 4.4!