(10-02-2018, 11:05 AM)kingpill Wrote: I've noticed that some guys take the piss out of girls for acting sexy (taking hot photos, even thinking they're hot), like scoffing and sniggering at them. Then they wonder why its so hard to get girls. Like wtf, your laughing at them for being themselves and then wondering why they dont like you?

(10-02-2018, 06:01 AM)RTBoss Wrote: While I'm not worried about getting manipulated into having more kids, my concern is the women we're disqualifying b/c they have no interest in having kids, ever, with anyone. A lot of women are just looking to have a good time. At the least, adding in "fun" instead of going full-court-press on "baby rabies" seems like the better route to me.

I'm for whatever Shannon deems best after modeling the options.

(10-02-2018, 11:54 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Not to mention punishing good behavior. Who in their right mind doesn't want girls to be more sexual?

(10-02-2018, 12:04 PM)kingpill Wrote:

(10-02-2018, 11:54 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Not to mention punishing good behavior. Who in their right mind doesn't want girls to be more sexual?

Exactly, I think its because they subconsciously know that when a girl is 'sexual', they won't be getting attention like they do when shes being 'social'.

Its basically a form of subconsciously shaming them so that they still have a chance. lol

(10-02-2018, 11:05 AM)kingpill Wrote: I've noticed that some guys take the piss out of girls for acting sexy (taking hot photos, even thinking they're hot), like scoffing and sniggering at them. Then they wonder why its so hard to get girls. Like wtf, your laughing at them for being themselves and then wondering why they dont like you?

(10-02-2018, 12:16 PM)Fluffy Wrote:

(10-02-2018, 11:05 AM)kingpill Wrote: I've noticed that some guys take the piss out of girls for acting sexy (taking hot photos, even thinking they're hot), like scoffing and sniggering at them. Then they wonder why its so hard to get girls. Like wtf, your laughing at them for being themselves and then wondering why they dont like you?

Yeah man, give it to them for trying.

(10-02-2018, 01:07 PM)findingme Wrote: ...
And for its sheer power and the most recent developments, I've been wondering about DMSI. I do have ugly associations with sex, all taken from my childhood. I still feel very inadequate and inept in regards to sex with women. Well.....not sex really--it's the relating I avoid.

But my main goal is mental detoxing of old beliefs I have towards myself and other people. I love the polymorphic scripting where it finds my hidden needs and heals them. What I experienced my first UD run I did not see coming. It touched my core.

(10-02-2018, 01:07 PM)findingme Wrote: Shannon,

I'm seeking your imput, as I'm going through some rough stuff on E2, legitimately. It's surfacing old insecurities in me, and I've felt unconfident around male coworkers today.

I'm running E2 until Halloween, and I've had my mind on my next sub lately. I've been sabotaging some success via heavy caffeine consumption, and I've been tempted lately to play MLS since it stimulates my mind and body both.

In the middle of emotional pains I've felt, I lean heavily towards doing UD again, even knowing it may be quiet the first week or so. But me trying to lie to myself (or denial) has escalated recently, and the thing I value about UD is it knowing exactly where to focus. For example, I have never been labelled ADD, but under extreme stress, I'm looking everywhere except NOW. I've not been grounded peacefully lately. My old survival strategies have been rising to the surface, mostly where I feel like a scared child around unavailable adults. (That's definitely being worked on by E2)

I've considered MLS too since it has a detox element, but MLS is not UD. You've pointed this out with other newer subs.

And for its sheer power and the most recent developments, I've been wondering about DMSI. I do have ugly associations with sex, all taken from my childhood. I still feel very inadequate and inept in regards to sex with women. Well.....not sex really--it's the relating I avoid.

But my main goal is mental detoxing of old beliefs I have towards myself and other people. I love the polymorphic scripting where it finds my hidden needs and heals them. What I experienced my first UD run I did not see coming. It touched my core.

I may have opened too much to discuss in this post, but I'm asking "which sub would you recommend I use after E2?"

Thank you.