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Amicable Conflict Resolution - RTBoss - 12-05-2015
How about a sub - with state shifting technology - that can be used during an argument? I have these knock-down drag-out fights with my wife (because, frankly, we have conflicting world-views as well as some direct astrological incompatibilities), and I would love to have something I could put on that would get us to be more open-minded and empathetic concerning the other person's feelings and point-of-view.
I really can't get through a week without having some kind of dumb argument with her, and it's wearing on my affinity for her. We have a lot of ARC "breaks" (Affinity, Reality, Communication). I had a metaphysical teacher that explained a relationship cannot exist without two of the three being present. Breaking two out of three results in an ARC break, and is seriously detrimental to the survival of said relationship. Sometimes, all I have going is my love for my wife (affinity) and every time our communication breaks down, it's chipping away at it.
There are literally no subliminals that work on couples to improve the quality of their relationship together. It's time that changed.
RE: Amicable Conflict Resolution - Life - 12-05-2015
I wish I could give you advice but arguments are a normal part of life. There are good times to no? Gratitude and finding what you like about eachother usually heals this. Why fight about your differences when there's so much good about your relationship? If you both listened to gratitude I'm sure you'd find a lot of love
RE: Amicable Conflict Resolution - RTBoss - 12-06-2015
@Guider: Isn't Gratitude a 3G sub? RE: Arguments - they aren't normal when they're daily. I'll keep truckin', though. I don't really have another choice.
@yeah!: Yes, but more like "Happily Married" 5G or something. I was thinking this would be more like a short-term sub, to be used when an argument starts to get it over with quickly and peacefully, with a win-win solution that lasts.
RE: Amicable Conflict Resolution - Daredevil - 12-06-2015
(12-05-2015, 04:01 PM)RTBoss Wrote: How about a sub - with state shifting technology - that can be used during an argument? I have these knock-down drag-out fights with my wife (because, frankly, we have conflicting world-views as well as some direct astrological incompatibilities), and I would love to have something I could put on that would get us to be more open-minded and empathetic concerning the other person's feelings and point-of-view.
I really can't get through a week without having some kind of dumb argument with her, and it's wearing on my affinity for her. We have a lot of ARC "breaks" (Affinity, Reality, Communication). I had a metaphysical teacher that explained a relationship cannot exist without two of the three being present. Breaking two out of three results in an ARC break, and is seriously detrimental to the survival of said relationship. Sometimes, all I have going is my love for my wife (affinity) and every time our communication breaks down, it's chipping away at it.
There are literally no subliminals that work on couples to improve the quality of their relationship together. It's time that changed.
In Bens early journals Shannon talked about how emotional types won't understand logical types. You arguments is like 2 humans speaking different languages. You cannot understand each other. This has been the dilemma from the beginning of time that the feminine energy cannot understand the masculine and vice versa. Also your internal world reflects your external world. You having conflict with your wife is a representation of you having conflict with the feminine in you most likely or your yin energy. Maybe you want to Run Remove Negativity within for 4-6 months after you are done running what you are running? And how is your sex life?
RE: Amicable Conflict Resolution - RTBoss - 12-06-2015
(12-06-2015, 01:58 PM)Hercules Wrote: Maybe you want to Run Remove Negativity within for 4-6 months after you are done running what you are running? And how is your sex life?
I've been running BIATBWS. Sex life is terrible. The only reason I get it once a week is b/c I told my wife that I quit self-pleasure and watching porn (both of which she was ok with, 'cuz it got her out of having sex). Her libido is terrible. When we do have sex, it's always with her on her back. Rarely in doggy. I've asked for more involvement - not havin' it. And she has such intimacy issues, we haven't french kissed in over 6 years (out of our 8 year relationship).
I don't know if you're into astrology at all, but I have a Scorpio Moon sign and she has an Aquarius Moon sign. Worst combination ever. It's bad enough I'm Aquarius Sun and she's Taurus Sun. Anyway, my Scorpio Moon makes my emotional life extremely turbulent - which she can't handle. There's also a lack of emotional depth to her, and I crave it. It's just...not good.
RE: Amicable Conflict Resolution - RTBoss - 12-07-2015
She'd say, "Then just leave me." Rather than change, she threatens me. Argh!
Not really experiencing much resistance, honestly. Just tons of lusty looks from women most places I go. I've been to restaurants I frequent with hot waitresses, and whereas before they never even glanced at my table, now I see them stare as they walk by.
RE: Amicable Conflict Resolution - Daredevil - 12-07-2015
(12-07-2015, 02:43 PM)RTBoss Wrote: She'd say, "Then just leave me." Rather than change, she threatens me. Argh!
Not really experiencing much resistance, honestly. Just tons of lusty looks from women most places I go. I've been to restaurants I frequent with hot waitresses, and whereas before they never even glanced at my table, now I see them stare as they walk by.
Why don't you leave her then?
RE: Amicable Conflict Resolution - apollolux - 12-07-2015
Let her know you're a sexual being and find out about her intimacy issues.
RE: Amicable Conflict Resolution - RTBoss - 12-07-2015
@yeah! I used EPHRA as my first sub for 3 months - she didn't know it was even playing. Didn't see any effects on her. But I'm sure she could use it - she's been abused by her boyfriend previous to our relationship, and it's fucked up b/c he saved her from the guy who KIDNAPPED her. So her HERO beat her, and verbally abused her. I know this affects our relationship to this day.
@Herc I take my wedding vows seriously. Also, she's the mother of my son, and I'll do anything to figure this out before I put him on a life path where his parents are divorced.
@apolloux I pretty much told her that. If she has zero libido, I have a pretty kinky mind that's focused on sex constantly. If I were single and did the AYP Nympho sub, I'd be in heaven. She needs therapy for her intimacy issues, but short of threatening divorce, she won't go. Man, marriage can get complicated (for me, anyway).
RE: Amicable Conflict Resolution - Daredevil - 12-08-2015
Run increase sex drive sub for her, that will get her going in no time.
RE: Amicable Conflict Resolution - RTBoss - 12-08-2015
Thanks, guys. I actually do have X32. It hasn't affected her before, but maybe I haven't run it enough.
RE: Amicable Conflict Resolution - RTBoss - 12-11-2015
I think I may have found a solution - Increase Your Sex Drive 4G. My wife and I match the description of the program EXACTLY. We sleep together, and when she's home, she knows I play my sub during the day as well. She should get plenty of exposure time.
We are mismatched when it comes to our sex drives. Perhaps this will help her catch up to me, so I don't go and end up sleeping with someone else.
RE: Amicable Conflict Resolution - RTBoss - 12-21-2015
I'm really waiting for EPHRA 2.0 Having read all the goodies that'll be in there, it's a must-run sub for me.
Thanks for your words. People, through perseverance, can grow closer and become better for sure. We don't always have to grow apart, which is really the easy way out. Sometimes there's nothing you can do, but we all are responsible for doing our part to help love grow! None of use will ever be perfect. Being surrounded by media that makes it seem like others' lives are perfect doesn't help any of us. That being said, coming onto forums like this, and seeing how we all experience hardships and can help each other is a big relief!