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Just wanted to share something with you guys about masturbating... - max321 - 03-28-2015
Yo guys, I don't know if this is bullshit or true, but I wanted to share this article wirh you, it seems.very interesting. I know that there are some adverts in it to some book, but i haven't read it and I'm not advertising it. I just wanted some opinions on the stuff written in this article. Thank you
http://www.majorleaguedating.com/reasons-stop-masturbating-jacking-off-jerking-off-and-fapping/
RE: Just wanted to share something with you guys about masturbating... - Ampersnd - 03-28-2015
Great post; it might actually influence me to go for a quarter of the year without fapping (I split up my yearly goals into quarters) and to see what happens.
RE: Just wanted to share something with you guys about masturbating... - adam225 - 03-28-2015
Sounds like a load of marketing BS to me.
RE: Just wanted to share something with you guys about masturbating... - max321 - 03-29-2015
I don't think its marketing adam, the book he is trying to sell is about helping people stop, I don't plan on buying it, and neither should anyone who think that they can stop on their own, I read that article 5 days ago and haven't fapped since then.
RE: Just wanted to share something with you guys about masturbating... - mat422 - 03-29-2015
Ok I read it, here's my take. A LOT of his problems with masturbation were his shame over it. Shame manifests in a lot of ways, depression, anxiety, inability to concentrate, etc. If you just masturbated and hold in your head that what you did was this shame ridden thing that women find disgusting and makes you a loser, that's going to be your frame of mind when you are interacting with them. They'll pick up on that vibe and of course they won't be interested. When he stopped masturbating, no shame which equals more confidence. But masturbating didn't cause shame, it was his beliefs surrounding masturbating that caused the shame. It's all about moderation. Obviously if you sit down for 5 hours straight in a wankathon, you might want to reassess your priorities. But there's nothing wrong with every now and then. The way he frames it, it's all or nothing. Either you're at home masturbating all day pissing away productivity or you abstain completely. Neither of which is particularly good.
RE: Just wanted to share something with you guys about masturbating... - max321 - 03-29-2015
Thanks for your share of opinion mat, I agree with you on this point, but there are a few points he indicates which aren't just about shame or women, like drop of testosterone level and the same brain activity as heroin and cocaine users, and also that it messes with your dopamine levels, and if that is true, it is really troubleing.
RE: Just wanted to share something with you guys about masturbating... - GlaizenGold777 - 03-30-2015
For me, masturbating is just a waste of time. If you want to kill two birds with one stone, watch porn but also jelqing while watching porn (not ejaculating of course). No semen wasted, and your little weapon is getting longer and bigger. Win-win solution.
RE: Just wanted to share something with you guys about masturbating... - mat422 - 03-30-2015
(03-29-2015, 12:47 PM)max321 Wrote: Thanks for your share of opinion mat, I agree with you on this point, but there are a few points he indicates which aren't just about shame or women, like drop of testosterone level and the same brain activity as heroin and cocaine users, and also that it messes with your dopamine levels, and if that is true, it is really troubleing.
No problem. The drop in testosterone isn't really a big deal. It's not even really a drop. It's just that when you abstain your testosterone levels increase, but it levels out again. The whole thing with the same brain activity as heroin and cocaine users. This goes for almost any addiction really. If you scanned the brain of a heavy video game addict I'd bet you'd see similar brain activity. All of this only really applies if A you feel an addiction to your behavior and B if it is causing significant distress in your life. Don't get caught up in worrying about it.
RE: Just wanted to share something with you guys about masturbating... - JackOfHearts - 03-30-2015
Solution: use AM6 or LTU or Ephra. I agree with Mat.
I stop reading after that:
BEFORE YOU CONTINUE: If masturbation is messing up your life and you need help or advice on HOW to stop and overcome your masturbation addiction, thousands of men have had success with my product 98 Ways to Stop Masturbating. It’s specifically designed to help you finally break your stubborn habit of masturbation once and for all.
I think masturbation addiction exist because we have "no life", we are bored on our computer trying to find something useful to do. Most of the time I was on porn because I was bored, my life su**ed. End of story: get a life.
Use AM6, LTU or Ephra to help you.
RE: Just wanted to share something with you guys about masturbating... - Benjamin - 03-30-2015
I have been able to solve the issue of porn and masturbation indirectly. It seemed mainly through dealing with issues around my weight that the desire to look at porn lessened, so it was obviously connected in some way.
Still I would like to use the overcoming porn addiction program again to help me reset my sex drive. A few times it's got to that point where it's started coming back but then i've reverted temporarily and fucked that up, and now it just doesn't seem to be happening again. When I used that program for a month or so in the past it went through that phase very quickly so I know it would help.
RE: Just wanted to share something with you guys about masturbating... - AfzalG - 04-01-2015
dajly masturbation isnt good but going without masturbating for a long time made me a puss....
anyway many things about the tetosterone in this article are not true or in a wrong context
RE: Just wanted to share something with you guys about masturbating... - FluffyBunny - 04-01-2015
i find that masturbation makes me more horny and wanna fuck
obvly dont do it evevryday but its not that big of a deal if u masturbate