(10-02-2012, 05:37 PM)Tiesto Wrote: I haven't wear a watch for a very long time, since I haven't seen the need for it, yesterday my cousin who also taught NLP told me that my personality is strongly towards the auditory digital style, I mostly care about function and logic, for example in my eyes a watch is just a device to tell time, if I can use my phone to do that, then I don't need to bother with wearing a watch.

Now I realized that I have to create more balance in my life, not just focus on function, but I have to put more attention on other style, i.e. visual, instead of thinking a watch just a device to tell time, I have to see it also as a fashion accessory that has different meaning and has different effect towards other people.

How do you guys select the right kind of watch? How to choose the style, build, design, etc?

(10-01-2012, 06:21 PM)benjamin Wrote: And the dressing thing is interesting. I wouldn't mind dressing a bit better but because of my weight I just don't think I will look good anyway so haven't bothered much.

(10-03-2012, 09:53 PM)Shannon Wrote: I am noticing much of the same. I am flirting with women all over the place now. This afternoon at the mall, when I went to get my watch band fixed, I stopped to get something to eat and was surprised to find myself playfully flirting with a girl who must have been half my age... and boy was she eating it up. I think I have four or five females at the mall now who are starting to circle like sharks who smell blood... I say females because they range from 18 to about my own age, or maybe a little older. It's amazing that I can attract the interest of females of ALL ages now because of this program's effects on me. Before, I was only getting interest from women within 2-3 years of my age. Kind of funny having high school girls standing around trying to figure out how they can ask me out on a date... but lately, I just flirt with every woman I meet. It's as if "I'm sexy and I know it" is my new theme.

And I have a number of exceptionally attractive women in the 23-26 range who are blatantly attracted, but trying hard to resist their attraction. One is steadily progressing toward having sex with me, while doing things like tonight she showed me some nude pictures of herself during sex with her jerk boyfriend (he really is a jerk, it's nothing personal) and then - without me ever saying I wanted to have sex, she later shot me down for sex. If I didn't know she was "shooting me down" to convince herself she didn't want to have sex with me, I'd have been like WTF? It's funny. But I know it, I can feel it, I can sense it... she's moving steadily in that direction, and she's fighting it tooth and nail inside because I'm not the asshole type and I'm not the 6'7" tall body builder type either. If she keeps this crap up, though, I'm gonna shoot HER down when she's finally ready.

There's another one who is also taken, who has been steadily moving towards installing herself in my life, and I get the impression from the way she acts around and toward me that she's moving toward making herself my girlfriend... but she seems oblivious to this herself. Tonight she made plans with me to go get icecream after trivia, without her boyfriend, and that fell through when she didn't get cut. Then she invited me to go to trivia with her (alone with her, from what it seemed) every Monday in the town over. Hmmm. Maybe I'm misreading these ladies, but - I don't think I am.

There are a couple more who work together at another place as bartenders, and one of them is giving me a subtle "I'm interested, catch me if you can" ploy. The other is trying not to be interested, but apparently finds me so attractive that she must hide after a while.

There are two more bartenders at yet another place I hang out, who last night "discovered" me while I was having dinner. It was one of them's birthday, and these two were drunk. The petite one, whose birthday it was, was really interested early in the evening, and then the blonde one noticed me and started giving me the eye, completely oblivious to her co-worker who was now giving her the evil eye in return. I didn't go talk to them because I knew that would kill my shot with the petite one, whom I like, but tomorrow I am going to introduce myself to the petite one and start something with her.

There's another woman about my age who is showing very obvious signs of interest, also... I have seen her three times now, and I have money on it that next time I see her, she's going to ask me for a date.

Fascinating how women are treating me since I started AM.

(10-03-2012, 11:35 PM)benjamin Wrote: Wow Shannon, I wish that was happening to me. Instead I seem to just be alot more intimidating, especially in Stage 2.

Though your in stage 3 I believe and you also did SM before which I haven't completed.

And I guess I haven't been out enough to really observe it.