(01-05-2019, 05:52 PM)firsthelix Wrote:

(01-02-2019, 06:52 AM)Shannon Wrote:

(01-02-2019, 06:00 AM)firsthelix Wrote:

(12-20-2018, 08:00 AM)Shannon Wrote:

(12-19-2018, 02:33 PM)blth Wrote: Shannon can you explain a little bit how important non masturbation is on dmsi and why, how it helps the end goal etc?

Masturbation is the release of sexual energy, among other things. That sexual energy is both a form and source of energy, and a form and source of motivation to achieve sex.

When you have a lot of that sexual energy, you are motivated to do something about it. The goal is to use that energy to make yourself more sexually attractive. The way to defeat that goal is to jerk off.

DMSI is not designed to prevent you from socializing or approaching if you want to. It is designed to maximize how sexually attractive you are, and part of how it does that is by causing you to generate more sexual energy, so that there is more SEX in your aura with which to affect those around you.

The more sexual energy you have, the more sexually attractive and arousing you become, even without the help of DMSI. DMSI uses that sexual energy to achieve it's goals.

Masturbating interrupts that.

I agree! But what about masturbating without jerking off? The old Taoists and Tantrists equally have ways to pull that energy through the chakras while keeping the juice in the body. They believe everytime you ejaculate you waste some of your life energy.

This post violates Rule 4, discussing religion. Please refrain from doing that in the future.

When you expend the energy that drives you to achieve sex, or circumvent it, you reduce or remove the motivation it provides. If the goal of DMSI is to result in sex, then anything that reduces or removes the motivation to achieve the goal instead of hide is going to be detrimental. The question is, does that apply to what you're talking about?

Thanks for the reply, Shannon, I appreciate it! Your reminder of violating rule #4 is unnecessary. If you read my post closely, you will learn that in no way did I "discuss religion". I mentioned the source of the energy work for illustration purposes, as it is known and accepted as the foundation of Traditional Chinese Medicin (TCM) and TBH I am a little astonished you don't seem to be familiar with this. By no means, I am interested in the religious context of anything here but the practical application of things.

Hope this clarifies things!

(01-06-2019, 12:43 AM)maxx55 Wrote: So you’re saying don’t try to do anything to stop feeling horny or frustrated. DMSI will take care of that?

(01-05-2019, 06:06 PM)firsthelix Wrote:

(01-02-2019, 06:53 AM)Shannon Wrote:

(01-02-2019, 06:07 AM)firsthelix Wrote:

(12-20-2018, 08:05 AM)Shannon Wrote:

(12-19-2018, 02:35 PM)josh84 Wrote: Thanks shannon, i will try changing the volume on vlc media player on the next cycle, tonight is the last night of trickling stream hybrid and will drop vlc media player volume to 75%. After the 2 day break will move onto ocean surf hybrid and will try between 50 and 75% and see if the lower volumes will work better for me.

Just seeing that 12 of 15 volume is recommended and others having volume up loud is why i had been doing it that way but will decrease volume for the cycles from now on and see how it goes.

Would 10% decrease be equal to one notch on a phone?

A volume of 12 is recommended for Jake. Not for everyone. There is a high correlation between a volume of 10-12-13-14-15 for Beast, but I haven't tested DMSI, etc. I am recommending 12/15 to Jake because it is known across several different programs (Beast, MIR, ARA, USLM, SE, DNWS, GPR) to be the sweet spot for execution from resistant personalities when you are using a cell phone.

You will have to use a volume meter to know what the equivalent volume is for VLC, and you have to take into account volume at the source (speaker) and distance from speaker to ear. Even that isn't perfect because some phones have speakers positioned at different distances from their microphones, which may translate into a different volume than 12.

Interesting! How does that translate for iPhone users with no volume indication?

Reason #374 not to use Apple products? The only thing you can do at that point is to use an app like FrequenSee and estimate volume based on dB, but even that is not ideal because the speaker's proximity to the microphone is different on all phones.

Thanks for your reply!

Only lately did my impression increase that volume levels are that crucial. If that is the case, you might wanna be interested to make your products as effective for either phone device, meaning there should be instructions how to achieve the same level of effectiveness for any kind of phones. iPhone is a reality, whether you like it or not and a big part of your "market" uses Apple products in one way or another. With other words, you can't provide everybody using iPhones switching to Android just because your products can't be made to work as effective as on Androids.

Just my 2 cents...

(01-05-2019, 06:53 PM)firsthelix Wrote:

(01-04-2019, 10:50 AM)Shannon Wrote:

(01-04-2019, 03:13 AM)Greenduck Wrote: Shannon, I am contemplating my last relationship where I somewhat got overly attached to the girl, and still in some way am. It's mostly related to a sexual attachment. I haven't experienced this with other girls I have had sex with or being together with, just with her. It's like there is a damn gravitational pull, where I can do anything to get to sleep with her, even loosing myself. I wrote a post about it here if you have time to look it over.

I guess that E2 will take care of it with enough time, but what would really benefit me, would to better understand what causes this kind of attachment in your understanding? Lack of own direction for example? Is it something the girl does that create the situation? An energetic connection? The girl manipulating the male ego? I feel pretty lost on the issue...

First, it may or may not just be you. People have different personalities and personal energies, and some of them are incredibly attractive and responsive to one another. What you describe is a type of personality that has an incredibly powerful sexual gravity which is intoxicating and almost impossible to ignore for those susceptible to it.

I'm not going to say this is the case for you, but I have had a girlfriend or two with that and it extended so far as to become a form of mind control for me, I literally had to exit her presence for a couple weeks before I was able to think and see straight again. It took me a solid two years to break up with her, and several more to be entirely done with her. Sometimes this sort of influence is incredibly powerful.

This can also have to do with pre-existing interactions which are beyond the obvious.

What you have is a situation that demands growth from you. Whatever else may be the case, you must outgrow something that holds you in place with regard to this response to her.

I experienced the same during my 10-year marriage. Sex was incredible, from the first to the last day, so that I didn't pay attention to the red flags of other areas. IMO it has nothing to do with mind control since she didn't initiate anything on purpose. It was rather me losing my masculine center and the ability to detach after passion.

(01-06-2019, 12:43 AM)maxx55 Wrote: So you’re saying don’t try to do anything to stop feeling horny or frustrated. DMSI will take care of that?

(01-06-2019, 09:03 AM)Shannon Wrote: As it stands, any loss of effectiveness on an iPhone is Apple's doing, not mine, since theoretically (given their pedigree) Apple phones should be providing superior hardware for audio playback. I don't know if that is the case since Jobs died, but I do know that Apple products are typically designed to force a situation where simplicity and aesthetics outweighs choice in execution and common sense decisions of design, like showing you how many ticks you have on the volume.

(01-06-2019, 12:43 AM)maxx55 Wrote: So you’re saying don’t try to do anything to stop feeling horny or frustrated. DMSI will take care of that?

(01-05-2019, 06:06 PM)firsthelix Wrote: Only lately did my impression increase that volume levels are that crucial. If that is the case, you might wanna be interested to make your products as effective for either phone device, meaning there should be instructions how to achieve the same level of effectiveness for any kind of phones. iPhone is a reality, whether you like it or not and a big part of your "market" uses Apple products in one way or another. With other words, you can't provide everybody using iPhones switching to Android just because your products can't be made to work as effective as on Androids.

Just my 2 cents...