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RE: The Upgrade Protocol- AM6 1st run - Aventus45 - 04-06-2016
(04-06-2016, 04:55 AM)wolverine_i_am Wrote: Have you randomly approached a girl before? Or is it something you aren't sure what to expect?
I never done it before so I had crippling AA.
RE: The Upgrade Protocol- AM6 1st run - wolverine_i_am - 04-06-2016
But you will haha!
RE: The Upgrade Protocol- AM6 1st run - Aventus45 - 04-06-2016
Started No-fap PMO edition and it was comfortable for the first day. That is going to be a rough ride.
Worked out today and got a nosebleed in the middle of my workout. Kinda bummed that I took it as a sign to rest and end the workout.
RE: The Upgrade Protocol- AM6 1st run - Aventus45 - 04-07-2016
So I tried my first approach....after 45 min of glancing at the girl...LOL.
I basically got blownoff in a nice way by not being talked to anymore. Oh well. Turns out she had a bf
Edit. No mone is going to make this easier for me. Its something i cannot avoid. If i want to get better then ill have to work on it.
RE: The Upgrade Protocol- AM6 1st run - wolverine_i_am - 04-07-2016
(04-07-2016, 10:20 AM)Aventus45 Wrote: So I tried my first approach....after 45 min of glancing at the girl...LOL.
I basically got blownoff in a nice way by not being talked to anymore. Oh well. Turns out she had a bf
Edit. No mone is going to make this easier for me. Its something i cannot avoid. If i want to get better then ill have to work on it.
Congrats dude. You're in the top 1%! Something that the majority canot do. Proud of ya.
It took me around 200 approaches to get my first date. Cold approach is a really difficult skill to learn, because you know, making conversation and creating strong rapport, as well as spiking attraction, with somebody you just met, they are extremely difficult things. Keep at it and you will become really good. This is coming from a guy who struggled too.
RE: The Upgrade Protocol- AM6 1st run - Aventus45 - 04-08-2016
DAY 16
Spent the day blasting though job applications for this summer.
-I feel a small amount of the IDGAF energy inside me but it isnt a strong feeling.
RE: The Upgrade Protocol- AM6 1st run - Sickologist - 04-08-2016
Everybody gets blownoff, most of the time.
The guys who are really getting laid, approach 20-30 hotties a week and fuck 7-15%. That is cold approach top game, meaning you have above average style, looks, social freedom and coolness. The most important thing is that you don't take it personally and keep the momentum going. A lot of the time it will be like this, a polite rejection. You don't know if she's available or not, in this case she wasn't. It happens to all of us, but there's only one way to find out. You'll have hot streak and dry spells, it's just the way it is.
The only way to eliminate(almost) rejection is to hit up bars and clubs. Make eye contact with a girl a couple times and then approach. She's already familiar with you then and wants it to happen. It's the best way to screen out who's DTF and not. There's still a million ways to fuck it up, but hey.
Keep going and eventually you'll have a decent instinct. I already know before approaching how a girl is gonna react to me. This can't be taught.
RE: The Upgrade Protocol- AM6 1st run - Aventus45 - 04-08-2016
(04-08-2016, 09:07 AM)Sickologist Wrote: Everybody gets blownoff, most of the time.
The guys who are really getting laid, approach 20-30 hotties a week and **** 7-15%. That is cold approach top game, meaning you have above average style, looks, social freedom and coolness. The most important thing is that you don't take it personally and keep the momentum going. A lot of the time it will be like this, a polite rejection. You don't know if she's available or not, in this case she wasn't. It happens to all of us, but there's only one way to find out. You'll have hot streak and dry spells, it's just the way it is.
The only way to eliminate(almost) rejection is to hit up bars and clubs. Make eye contact with a girl a couple times and then approach. She's already familiar with you then and wants it to happen. It's the best way to screen out who's DTF and not. There's still a million ways to **** it up, but hey.
Keep going and eventually you'll have a decent instinct. I already know before approaching how a girl is gonna react to me. This can't be taught.
AM6 does work on inner game so it probably would get better as I go though the stages
RE: The Upgrade Protocol- AM6 1st run - Aventus45 - 04-08-2016
I forgot to mention on the same day of my first approach. I asked one of the members of a club to have some spicy food challenge and she was smiling and everything but she was running away from me while still smiling. She tried to deflect my challenge to a male member of the group.
Edit. One of the places that i applied to emailed me for a phone interview. So. Im going to have to talk in a more asserive way. Or in simple pickup terms "downtalk".
RE: The Upgrade Protocol- AM6 1st run - CatMan - 04-08-2016
I'm happy you're doing AM6. Good, you're about to embark on a wonderful journey lol.
Also, I LOVE Voodoo. Recognised your avatar haha
...May your transformation be glorious, friend!
RE: The Upgrade Protocol- AM6 1st run - chaosvrgn - 04-08-2016
I've been dying to try Voodoo but I have limited funds. If I make the investment, it needs to be worthwhile. Does it actually "imprint" and if so, better than xist?
RE: The Upgrade Protocol- AM6 1st run - CatMan - 04-08-2016
(04-08-2016, 02:51 PM)chaosvrgn Wrote: I've been dying to try Voodoo but I have limited funds. If I make the investment, it needs to be worthwhile. Does it actually "imprint" and if so, better than xist?
Voodoo is an absolutely excellent social lubricator. Dissolves social walls/issues like crazy. There's attraction in it too, status for both genders. Smells like an old school masculine Old Spice type of deal, I love it, very manly. Also, it lasts an extremely long time, for me WAY over 18 hours. Imprinting as well, but I only have Nude Alpha+A1 to compare it to. Ironically, I've found Nude Alpha+A1 to imprint more so in a romantic angle, whereas with Voodoo it seems to imprint "in general" if you get me. Being that it's supposed to be an imprinter by design, instead of Nude Alpha being an imprinter by accident, this makes sense.
I don't have any experience with Xist, which is supposed to be an excellent product, especially for social lubrication as well as imprinting of course. Apparently, romantically, Nude Alpha+A1 offers a deeper imprint than Xist, so if that's the case, then Voodoo (or as I use it, Voodoo+Voodoo scented A1), must offer a further improved imprint over Xist. But some of this is assumption, based off reviews that have been made over time of them.
RE: The Upgrade Protocol- AM6 1st run - Aventus45 - 04-08-2016
(04-08-2016, 02:35 PM)CatMan Wrote: I'm happy you're doing AM6. Good, you're about to embark on a wonderful journey lol.
Also, I LOVE Voodoo. Recognised your avatar haha
May your transformation be glorious, friend!
I havent seen much from voodoo yet but i havent been interacting much.
RE: The Upgrade Protocol- AM6 1st run - Aventus45 - 04-08-2016
I had so a very energetic club meeting and i was having alot of fun laughing and enjoying myself. By the time it ended i was too drained to actually approach the same girl i mentioned today nor joined a group for an after event dinner. Kinda sucks but i loved the event overall and had a great time.
At the end, i realize that im not a very expressive guy. Its the same with the new group of people i hangout with.
Edit: Had a brief moment of true vulnerability, a moment which I just don't care about how a person reacts to what i say.