(07-26-2026, 12:17 PM)Sky Wrote: Wow, just had a 3 hour FaceTime with a girl from another state. It was a great conversation. I plan on visiting that state and her there while I'm exploring the lifestyle there. This seems like it has potential. I paused Hinge and Bumble, and will just go with the flow with her because she's serious about finding her person too and seems way less unable to make choices about who she wants to date and more honest with herself and who she wants to date. She doesn't have choice paralysis, so I see potential here, and she's not outright disrespecting me by saying she's choosing between another guy and me. She's going with the flow, and  assessing each feeling/experience she has with me and reflecting on it.  I feel good about this girl.

I did not expect anything from this conversation and expected it to end in a dead end lol so I'm glad there's potential here given that I'm already going to visit that state in a few months to see if I want to live there. Maybe there's hope for me yet and a potential relationship on the horizon.

(07-27-2026, 01:36 PM)Tiagoferreira Wrote:

(07-26-2026, 12:17 PM)Sky Wrote: Wow, just had a 3 hour FaceTime with a girl from another state. It was a great conversation. I plan on visiting that state and her there while I'm exploring the lifestyle there. This seems like it has potential. I paused Hinge and Bumble, and will just go with the flow with her because she's serious about finding her person too and seems way less unable to make choices about who she wants to date and more honest with herself and who she wants to date. She doesn't have choice paralysis, so I see potential here, and she's not outright disrespecting me by saying she's choosing between another guy and me. She's going with the flow, and  assessing each feeling/experience she has with me and reflecting on it.  I feel good about this girl.

I did not expect anything from this conversation and expected it to end in a dead end lol so I'm glad there's potential here given that I'm already going to visit that state in a few months to see if I want to live there. Maybe there's hope for me yet and a potential relationship on the horizon.

Keep an eye out for falling head over heels for a woman quickly. That is a quick road to cloud your mind and to start acting in ways that have a tendency to lead to disappointment down the road.

(09-13-2026, 08:40 AM)Sky Wrote: Got friend zoned today. I've lost count on the number of 1st dates I've been on.

(09-13-2026, 09:08 AM)4Kingdoms Wrote:

(09-13-2026, 08:40 AM)Sky Wrote: Got friend zoned today. I've lost count on the number of 1st dates I've been on.

Before you go on your next date...
Primal Attraction: The Psychology of Attraction
by Christopher Canwell

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Sometimes a "friend" will introduce you to her "friend".  Stay positive.

(09-19-2026, 08:00 AM)Sky Wrote: Hi @Shannon

This is the last response of date I got from a girl:

Hey [Name]l! It was nice getting to know you a bit yesterday. You are a lovely and kind person. After thinking about it more today, I want to be honest and say that I don’t feel a strong romantic connection between us. I really enjoyed meeting you, though, and I’m glad we had the chance to spend some time together. I’m genuinely wishing you all the best.


What stage of AM7 is designed to help me overcome this type of response and develop romantic attraction with a girl? I'm on Stage 3. I'm 2/3 through it. I know AM7 is about focusing inwardly to become a strong, masculine man. I get that. I'm just trying to figure out what I'm doing wrong.

(09-20-2026, 06:25 AM)Shannon Wrote: AM7 isn't designed to create romantic responses in women.  It has sexiness training, starting in Stage 3 and going through Stage 6, but that will only be helpful once you have sufficient alpha development to be coordinated with it and... can't remember the word right now... basically,  you have to be consistent with it and the sexiness training instead of being in a state of flux and development for the sexiness training to be effective.  If women sense that you're sort of alpha and sort of not (in process) they'll presume you're not alpha, and respond poorly.

(09-20-2026, 06:25 AM)Shannon Wrote:

(09-19-2026, 08:00 AM)Sky Wrote: Hi @Shannon

This is the last response of date I got from a girl:

Hey [Name]l! It was nice getting to know you a bit yesterday. You are a lovely and kind person. After thinking about it more today, I want to be honest and say that I don’t feel a strong romantic connection between us. I really enjoyed meeting you, though, and I’m glad we had the chance to spend some time together. I’m genuinely wishing you all the best.


What stage of AM7 is designed to help me overcome this type of response and develop romantic attraction with a girl? I'm on Stage 3. I'm 2/3 through it. I know AM7 is about focusing inwardly to become a strong, masculine man. I get that. I'm just trying to figure out what I'm doing wrong.

AM7 isn't designed to create romantic responses in women.  It has sexiness training, starting in Stage 3 and going through Stage 6, but that will only be helpful once you have sufficient alpha development to be coordinated with it and... can't remember the word right now... basically,  you have to be consistent with it and the sexiness training instead of being in a state of flux and development for the sexiness training to be effective.  If women sense that you're sort of alpha and sort of not (in process) they'll presume you're not alpha, and respond poorly.

(09-20-2026, 07:34 AM)4Kingdoms Wrote:

(09-20-2026, 06:25 AM)Shannon Wrote: AM7 isn't designed to create romantic responses in women.  It has sexiness training, starting in Stage 3 and going through Stage 6, but that will only be helpful once you have sufficient alpha development to be coordinated with it and... can't remember the word right now... basically,  you have to be consistent with it and the sexiness training instead of being in a state of flux and development for the sexiness training to be effective.  If women sense that you're sort of alpha and sort of not (in process) they'll presume you're not alpha, and respond poorly.

Congruent