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RE: Mr Steve's OF Journey - Shannon - 07-24-2020
Most likely, OF simply removed the fears that were preventing from actually expressing your existing social skills.
RE: Mr Steve's OF Journey - Mr_steevee - 07-24-2020
(07-24-2020, 03:17 PM)Shannon Wrote: Most likely, OF simply removed the fears that were preventing from actually expressing your existing social skills.
I love that. Thank you @Shannon for that sub. It is simply amazing.
RE: Mr Steve's OF Journey - Shannon - 07-24-2020
(07-24-2020, 03:24 PM)Mr_steevee Wrote:(07-24-2020, 03:17 PM)Shannon Wrote: Most likely, OF simply removed the fears that were preventing from actually expressing your existing social skills.
I love that. Thank you @Shannon for that sub. It is simply amazing.
I have to agree with you. I have been very cautious about letting myself get my hopes up that maybe this time I succeeded, but it does seem that this time it is working. I'm very pleasantly relieved.
RE: Mr Steve's OF Journey - THolt - 07-24-2020
(07-24-2020, 03:51 PM)Shannon Wrote:(07-24-2020, 03:24 PM)Mr_steevee Wrote:(07-24-2020, 03:17 PM)Shannon Wrote: Most likely, OF simply removed the fears that were preventing from actually expressing your existing social skills.
I love that. Thank you @Shannon for that sub. It is simply amazing.
I have to agree with you. I have been very cautious about letting myself get my hopes up that maybe this time I succeeded, but it does seem that this time it is working. I'm very pleasantly relieved.
@Shannon
Would E3 and eventually E4 have the same effect on social skills?
RE: Mr Steve's OF Journey - Shannon - 07-24-2020
(07-24-2020, 04:48 PM)THolt Wrote:(07-24-2020, 03:51 PM)Shannon Wrote:(07-24-2020, 03:24 PM)Mr_steevee Wrote:(07-24-2020, 03:17 PM)Shannon Wrote: Most likely, OF simply removed the fears that were preventing from actually expressing your existing social skills.
I love that. Thank you @Shannon for that sub. It is simply amazing.
I have to agree with you. I have been very cautious about letting myself get my hopes up that maybe this time I succeeded, but it does seem that this time it is working. I'm very pleasantly relieved.
@Shannon
Would E3 and eventually E4 have the same effect on social skills?
If the reason they're being repressed is fear, then E3, no. E4, maybe, depending on the specifics of how and why they are being repressed, and how E4 stand alone ends up being designed relative to how OF is regarding FRM in Platinum Lake build.
RE: Mr Steve's OF Journey - THolt - 07-24-2020
(07-24-2020, 05:33 PM)Shannon Wrote:(07-24-2020, 04:48 PM)THolt Wrote:(07-24-2020, 03:51 PM)Shannon Wrote:(07-24-2020, 03:24 PM)Mr_steevee Wrote:(07-24-2020, 03:17 PM)Shannon Wrote: Most likely, OF simply removed the fears that were preventing from actually expressing your existing social skills.
I love that. Thank you @Shannon for that sub. It is simply amazing.
I have to agree with you. I have been very cautious about letting myself get my hopes up that maybe this time I succeeded, but it does seem that this time it is working. I'm very pleasantly relieved.
@Shannon
Would E3 and eventually E4 have the same effect on social skills?
If the reason they're being repressed is fear, then E3, no. E4, maybe, depending on the specifics of how and why they are being repressed, and how E4 stand alone ends up being designed relative to how OF is regarding FRM in Platinum Lake build.
@Shannon
I feel like I am inhibited by social anxiety in certain social situations.
RE: Mr Steve's OF Journey - Mr_steevee - 07-28-2020
(07-24-2020, 06:37 PM)THolt Wrote:(07-24-2020, 05:33 PM)Shannon Wrote:(07-24-2020, 04:48 PM)THolt Wrote:(07-24-2020, 03:51 PM)Shannon Wrote:(07-24-2020, 03:24 PM)Mr_steevee Wrote: I love that. Thank you @Shannon for that sub. It is simply amazing.
I have to agree with you. I have been very cautious about letting myself get my hopes up that maybe this time I succeeded, but it does seem that this time it is working. I'm very pleasantly relieved.
@Shannon
Would E3 and eventually E4 have the same effect on social skills?
If the reason they're being repressed is fear, then E3, no. E4, maybe, depending on the specifics of how and why they are being repressed, and how E4 stand alone ends up being designed relative to how OF is regarding FRM in Platinum Lake build.
@Shannon
I feel like I am inhibited by social anxiety in certain social situations.
OF has helped me a lot with that. Especially when it comes to meeting new people.
Cycle 5 - Day 1
It seems that OF improves my relationship on a day to day basis. We are having more fun together and almost zero nonsense discussions. Had some vivid dreams last night but I can not remember any of them.
RE: Mr Steve's OF Journey - Mr_steevee - 07-29-2020
Cycle 5 - Day 2
Flirting nowadays is really a lot of fun. Not that I am looking for a new partner but it’s great to spread some good feelings. I really would recommend OF to these pickup artists lol Btw it reduces the fear of talking to women (or men) a lot.
RE: Mr Steve's OF Journey - Benjamin - 07-30-2020
The thing is alot of pua stuff is attempting to get around fear, of trying to do it in a sneakily way instead of expressing yourself in the way you want to and such. And alot of it really fucks some people up.
Obviously it's good to develop social skills and some people might need to. But alot of it comes naturally when you're in the right place.
RE: Mr Steve's OF Journey - Mr_steevee - 07-30-2020
(07-30-2020, 02:04 AM)Benjamin Wrote: The thing is alot of pua stuff is attempting to get around fear, of trying to do it in a sneakily way instead of expressing yourself in the way you want to and such. And alot of it really ***** some people up.
Obviously it's good to develop social skills and some people might need to. But alot of it comes naturally when you're in the right place.
Totally agree with you here.
In my opinion it’s always good to improve anything you want and this is what I would call the good thing about pickup. But learning lines and tactics feels somehow wrong. I have never been too deeply involved in that pickup stuff because it never has been my style. For me it has always been either she likes me for who I am or not. Maybe it did not get me laid as much as one of the pickup guys but at least it has always been myself not some line from some guru.
Well at the end it’s only my personal opinion and I don’t want to start a pickup debate here. At the end if it helps somebody to feel good and be happy than it’s fine to me.
Cycle 5 - Day 3
Today I realized that the exhaustion from the past days is gone. I feel full of energy although I slept only 6,5 h. I don’t know why but something inside of me is trying to stop me from going to the gym. Normally I train about 4 days per week. Today would be workout day but I have to force myself to go.
RE: Mr Steve's OF Journey - Mr_steevee - 08-05-2020
Cycle 6 - Day 1
So the reason why I have not reported the last days: there was nothing special. The last days were quite good and I was happy for most of the time. Every now and then I had the feeling that there is something big released inside of me.
I am very excited what the new DMSI will bring to you guys in a few weeks.
At the beginning I was tempted to use it as well but since OF is working so well and I don’t want to risk my relationship if it works as well as OF does .... I won’t use it. But I am really excited to read reports.
RE: Mr Steve's OF Journey - Mr_steevee - 08-08-2020
Cycle 6 - Day 2 &3
Latest achievement: jealousy is at an all time low. Other than that still feeling good and enjoying life at its fullest :-)
RE: Mr Steve's OF Journey - Shannon - 08-08-2020
I always suspected that jealousy was rooted in/a child of fear.
RE: Mr Steve's OF Journey - Mr_steevee - 08-14-2020
Cycle 7 - Day 1
I have to say I feel much better with OF running. The last days off have been very emotional for me. I have been short tempered and full of anxiety. Maybe I should reduce my days off.
I was thinking about buying LTU but at the end I have decided that the next big sub for me will be AM7.