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RE: Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3 - Darkness - 08-20-2018

@"kingpill" you actually might be on to something. Because in the UN, whether you’re gay or straight, the always use translators of the opposite sex of diplomats. Makes the message less likely to get misperceived.


RE: Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3 - Zeroxmachina - 08-20-2018

Hey Shannon, I have a question for you:If a person was in a severely depressed state of mind and perhaps struggling with suicidal ideation, do you think Ultra Motivation and Overcoming Procrastination might encourage them to stop putting off killing themselves? Sorta random I know, but i'm curious.


RE: Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3 - Oversoul - 08-20-2018

(08-20-2018, 03:21 PM)Darkness Wrote: @"kingpill" you actually might be on to something. Because in the UN, whether you’re gay or straight, the always use translators of the opposite sex of diplomats. Makes the message less likely to get misperceived.
Definitely makes sense for them to do that. The gender you are attracted to pleasantly saying something makes it much more likely to be listened to and much less of a threat. Also the promise of pleasure in their communication definitely helps.

Im sure Shannon has already put this in or is in the process of putting this in DMSI in some form. Hence the dream. lol


RE: Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3 - Benjamin - 08-20-2018

Quote:Hey Shannon, I have a question for you:If a person was in a severely depressed state of mind and perhaps struggling with suicidal ideation, do you think Ultra Motivation and Overcoming Procrastination might encourage them to stop putting off killing themselves? Sorta random I know, but i'm curious.

I really wouldn't recommend UM/OP in that case. Something gentle like E2, but more importantly getting professional help in that case.


RE: Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3 - Jake2015 - 08-20-2018

just wanted to quickly add that looks do matter to females because of the following...

Im on one of those online dating sites, a popular one and I dont have my pic on there. I messaged a girl only later to see she isnt seeking anything but friendship and she got chatting to me. She then pushed to see my pic and eventually I said well you only want friendship so I can wait lol

She replied with how if im hot she may change her mind and go for a relationship.

Just an example of how looks matter to women. It was looks that made women go drooling over the beatles and its looks that make them run after Tom Jones, whom they used to throw their knickers/undergarments at in the 60s and its looks that make them drool over celebritites.

Very rarely does a comedian get known for having hordes of women even though his humour clearly would make them 'feel' strong emotions.

Its looks that made girls go for Prince William when he had hair, and once he lost it they started turning their attention to the ginger Harry who they never noticed before lol.

Its good looking men that the media hail as a potential bachelor and its the looks with whom females have casual flings and office flings with.

The ONLY time looks comes in 2nd, 3rd or 4th in my experience is when the guy is either rich or has some other status or the female herself isnt hot.

When I was a teen to early adult I had some good looks and saw how females responded to me more then and now that my looks have gone I dont get females even though inside me I dont see that im anything less than I was as a teen - clearly I am though lol

I just wanted to share this.


RE: Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3 - Jake2015 - 08-20-2018

(08-17-2018, 02:22 PM)kingpill Wrote:
(08-17-2018, 11:40 AM)Jake2015 Wrote:
(08-17-2018, 04:29 AM)thor2014 Wrote: Charisma and confidence do play a role in attracting hot women. However the two main factors that get women to sleep with you are status and looks. Charisma and confidence with women are icing on the cake.

Status + Looks = No need to talk so much I have already decided I want to sleep with you.

I have a far easier time sleeping with hotties in the balkans because I am an expat and seen as high value plus I have a latino look which stands out a mile away. All the rest of the guys are caucasian which makes up this homogenous gene pool.

If I was in London it would not be easy to sleep with the hottest women. I mean its not impossible but alot more difficult. Despite me having the confidence and charisma.

I always make a girl feel happy.

I am and have been told that im one of the funniest confident men some know (from uni) and i know this to be true.

I am very quick witted and able to make most situations funny and I dont do it to impress anyone its just something I do (perhaps it began for the need for validation or attention or approval who knows).

Now when i see a girl I like I try and play it cool and calm and make her laugh.

Guess what, im making her FEEL really good, really happy. So anyone saying its about how you make a girl feel well guess what im making them feel great....

BUT these girls have already made an impression about me based on my looks. Based on my grooming, my clothes/dress sense/style, my walk, my posture. They have already in a split second figured out if im their type or not.

ALL of these women will love harrison ford or the rock - no matter how dead their personalities are (and both bore the **** outta me lol) but because they are good looking guys they fall for them and this goes for any good looking guy.

If i was good looking and then had good dress, style, and my wit etc boom i would be unstoppable im sure.

ITS ALL ABOUT LOOKS and thats as clear as day.

Office romances, casual flings and all these sex based relationships happen due to looks also known as lust.

How do you show your sexual intent to these girls that find you funny and confident?

sorry i never saw this till now.

I will ask them to go for a meal and they will tell me either that were just friends or that im such a cool respectable nice guy etc.

If I try anything else then I could scare them or come across too creep sleazy I think.

I always get the im only a friend response anyway even though before that theyre laughing away etc.

Its 100% to do with looks.


RE: Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3 - Zeroxmachina - 08-21-2018

(08-20-2018, 06:24 PM)Jake2015 Wrote:
(08-17-2018, 02:22 PM)kingpill Wrote:
(08-17-2018, 11:40 AM)Jake2015 Wrote:
(08-17-2018, 04:29 AM)thor2014 Wrote: Charisma and confidence do play a role in attracting hot women. However the two main factors that get women to sleep with you are status and looks. Charisma and confidence with women are icing on the cake.

Status + Looks = No need to talk so much I have already decided I want to sleep with you.

I have a far easier time sleeping with hotties in the balkans because I am an expat and seen as high value plus I have a latino look which stands out a mile away. All the rest of the guys are caucasian which makes up this homogenous gene pool.

If I was in London it would not be easy to sleep with the hottest women. I mean its not impossible but alot more difficult. Despite me having the confidence and charisma.

I always make a girl feel happy.

I am and have been told that im one of the funniest confident men some know (from uni) and i know this to be true.

I am very quick witted and able to make most situations funny and I dont do it to impress anyone its just something I do (perhaps it began for the need for validation or attention or approval who knows).

Now when i see a girl I like I try and play it cool and calm and make her laugh.

Guess what, im making her FEEL really good, really happy. So anyone saying its about how you make a girl feel well guess what im making them feel great....

BUT these girls have already made an impression about me based on my looks. Based on my grooming, my clothes/dress sense/style, my walk, my posture. They have already in a split second figured out if im their type or not.

ALL of these women will love harrison ford or the rock - no matter how dead their personalities are (and both bore the **** outta me lol) but because they are good looking guys they fall for them and this goes for any good looking guy.

If i was good looking and then had good dress, style, and my wit etc boom i would be unstoppable im sure.

ITS ALL ABOUT LOOKS and thats as clear as day.

Office romances, casual flings and all these sex based relationships happen due to looks also known as lust.

How do you show your sexual intent to these girls that find you funny and confident?

sorry i never saw this till now.

I will ask them to go for a meal and they will tell me either that were just friends or that im such a cool respectable nice guy etc.

If I try anything else then I could scare them or come across too creep sleazy I think.

I always get the im only a friend response anyway even though before that theyre laughing away etc.

Its 100% to do with looks.

Nah, in the real world there are dudes that just have 'it'. Whatever it is to women, which maybe not be anything more that a natural version of what DMSI is trying to achieve. I know a few guys like this; they aren't tall, handsome, rich, or even especially that funny, but they just have a way with the chicks. Literally one of them looks like a beaver, short arms, chubby, short, and the teeth, however he gets the chicks. You keep thinking it's about looks, it's not. That however does serve as a limiting belief that's a comfortable (and familiar) place to rest when things don't go the way ya want. And furthermore, don't ask women what it is they want, or like, they don't actually know, it's more important to find out what their actions are, not the ideas they have in their heads. With the right approach, 99% of women can and will 'change their minds'. Of course when you're already someone's type, things go smoother and require less effort, but it's not the end of the world if you aren't. As I've said, females are 90% mental, appeal to that, and the eyes will see what you want them to. Dating sites are trash in terms of realistic selection processes, people are generally there to get laid, or form long term relationships, and because it's the internet, they feel they can be more superficial. It's possible to approach a woman in real life with way better results that might give you the cold shoulder on an app.


RE: Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3 - thor2014 - 08-21-2018

(08-21-2018, 12:21 AM)Zeroxmachina Wrote:
(08-20-2018, 06:24 PM)Jake2015 Wrote:
(08-17-2018, 02:22 PM)kingpill Wrote:
(08-17-2018, 11:40 AM)Jake2015 Wrote:
(08-17-2018, 04:29 AM)thor2014 Wrote: Charisma and confidence do play a role in attracting hot women. However the two main factors that get women to sleep with you are status and looks. Charisma and confidence with women are icing on the cake.

Status + Looks = No need to talk so much I have already decided I want to sleep with you.

I have a far easier time sleeping with hotties in the balkans because I am an expat and seen as high value plus I have a latino look which stands out a mile away. All the rest of the guys are caucasian which makes up this homogenous gene pool.

If I was in London it would not be easy to sleep with the hottest women. I mean its not impossible but alot more difficult. Despite me having the confidence and charisma.

I always make a girl feel happy.

I am and have been told that im one of the funniest confident men some know (from uni) and i know this to be true.

I am very quick witted and able to make most situations funny and I dont do it to impress anyone its just something I do (perhaps it began for the need for validation or attention or approval who knows).

Now when i see a girl I like I try and play it cool and calm and make her laugh.

Guess what, im making her FEEL really good, really happy. So anyone saying its about how you make a girl feel well guess what im making them feel great....

BUT these girls have already made an impression about me based on my looks. Based on my grooming, my clothes/dress sense/style, my walk, my posture. They have already in a split second figured out if im their type or not.

ALL of these women will love harrison ford or the rock - no matter how dead their personalities are (and both bore the **** outta me lol) but because they are good looking guys they fall for them and this goes for any good looking guy.

If i was good looking and then had good dress, style, and my wit etc boom i would be unstoppable im sure.

ITS ALL ABOUT LOOKS and thats as clear as day.

Office romances, casual flings and all these sex based relationships happen due to looks also known as lust.

How do you show your sexual intent to these girls that find you funny and confident?

sorry i never saw this till now.

I will ask them to go for a meal and they will tell me either that were just friends or that im such a cool respectable nice guy etc.

If I try anything else then I could scare them or come across too creep sleazy I think.

I always get the im only a friend response anyway even though before that theyre laughing away etc.

Its 100% to do with looks.

Nah, in the real world there are dudes that just have 'it'. Whatever it is to women, which maybe not be anything more that a natural version of what DMSI is trying to achieve. I know a few guys like this; they aren't tall, handsome, rich, or even especially that funny, but they just have a way with the chicks. Literally one of them looks like a beaver, short arms, chubby, short, and the teeth, however he gets the chicks. You keep thinking it's about looks, it's not. That however does serve as a limiting belief that's a comfortable (and familiar) place to rest when things don't go the way ya want. And furthermore, don't ask women what it is they want, or like, they don't actually know, it's more important to find out what their actions are, not the ideas they have in their heads. With the right approach, 99% of women can and will 'change their minds'. Of course when you're already someone's type, things go smoother and require less effort, but it's not the end of the world if you aren't. As I've said, females are 90% mental, appeal to that, and the eyes will see what you want them to. Dating sites are trash in terms of realistic selection processes, people are generally there to get laid, or form long term relationships, and because it's the internet, they feel they can be more superficial. It's possible to approach a woman in real life with way better results that might give you the cold shoulder on an app.


Your living in cuckoo land. Looks do matter the initial physical chemistry does matter. I have never seen super hot girls with fat ugly guys unless they are good diggers or the guys are celebs.


RE: Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3 - AlphaRomeo - 08-21-2018

Broken records, anyone?


RE: Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3 - Oversoul - 08-21-2018

(08-20-2018, 06:24 PM)Jake2015 Wrote:
(08-17-2018, 02:22 PM)kingpill Wrote:
(08-17-2018, 11:40 AM)Jake2015 Wrote:
(08-17-2018, 04:29 AM)thor2014 Wrote: Charisma and confidence do play a role in attracting hot women. However the two main factors that get women to sleep with you are status and looks. Charisma and confidence with women are icing on the cake.

Status + Looks = No need to talk so much I have already decided I want to sleep with you.

I have a far easier time sleeping with hotties in the balkans because I am an expat and seen as high value plus I have a latino look which stands out a mile away. All the rest of the guys are caucasian which makes up this homogenous gene pool.

If I was in London it would not be easy to sleep with the hottest women. I mean its not impossible but alot more difficult. Despite me having the confidence and charisma.

I always make a girl feel happy.

I am and have been told that im one of the funniest confident men some know (from uni) and i know this to be true.

I am very quick witted and able to make most situations funny and I dont do it to impress anyone its just something I do (perhaps it began for the need for validation or attention or approval who knows).

Now when i see a girl I like I try and play it cool and calm and make her laugh.

Guess what, im making her FEEL really good, really happy. So anyone saying its about how you make a girl feel well guess what im making them feel great....

BUT these girls have already made an impression about me based on my looks. Based on my grooming, my clothes/dress sense/style, my walk, my posture. They have already in a split second figured out if im their type or not.

ALL of these women will love harrison ford or the rock - no matter how dead their personalities are (and both bore the **** outta me lol) but because they are good looking guys they fall for them and this goes for any good looking guy.

If i was good looking and then had good dress, style, and my wit etc boom i would be unstoppable im sure.

ITS ALL ABOUT LOOKS and thats as clear as day.

Office romances, casual flings and all these sex based relationships happen due to looks also known as lust.

How do you show your sexual intent to these girls that find you funny and confident?

sorry i never saw this till now.

I will ask them to go for a meal and they will tell me either that were just friends or that im such a cool respectable nice guy etc.

If I try anything else then I could scare them or come across too creep sleazy I think.

I always get the im only a friend response anyway even though before that theyre laughing away etc.

Its 100% to do with looks.

You gotta 'risk creepy'. Girls like having sex with 'badboys' or 'f**kboys' with not 'cool respectable guys'. Those are the ones they will settle down with after having all their fun.

Basically you gotta be abit of a dickhead to them in a funny/cocky way and tease them a little bit while being sexually confident.

Without an element of danger, seduction isn't seduction.


RE: Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3 - CatMan - 08-21-2018

Reposting this because it got buried. It's been over a week since Shannon's last update for the mystery program, and V3.3 work, saying that he was to start V3.3 2-3 days after that worst case. An update on both would be great!

(08-19-2018, 09:23 PM)CatMan Wrote: Hi Shannon. Hope the celebration went well for the bday, man!

Just curious, how are things going with the mystery program, intriguing. And V3.3, naturally?

Thank you, happy belated birthday!



RE: Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3 - NoLimit - 08-21-2018

(08-21-2018, 04:06 AM)kingpill Wrote: You gotta 'risk creepy'. Girls like having sex with 'badboys' or 'f**kboys' with not 'cool respectable guys'. Those are the ones they will settle down with after having all their fun.

Basically you gotta be abit of a ***** to them in a funny/cocky way and tease them a little bit while being sexually confident.

Without an element of danger, seduction isn't seduction.

You can risk creepy and be a badboy when you have look, I'm living proof of that. But if you are old and balding she will just call the cops dude Lol


I think Jake and Thor are spot on on this one, for exemple when I was young I had acne and no girls would sleep with me.
Then It cleared when I grew up and same girls I was asking some years ago were up for sex when we met again.

Later I got muscular, grew a beard and got some good tattoos on my body and now I'm getting a lot more women, it's simple as that.

My attitude toward girls did not really change during this time, I just improoved my look. If only I now know better how to manage relationships (my harem).

Give us some physical change sub demand is high, I'm tired of this DMSI gentleness.


RE: Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3 - SargeMaximus - 08-21-2018

(08-21-2018, 08:21 AM)NoLimit Wrote:
(08-21-2018, 04:06 AM)kingpill Wrote: You gotta 'risk creepy'. Girls like having sex with 'badboys' or 'f**kboys' with not 'cool respectable guys'. Those are the ones they will settle down with after having all their fun.

Basically you gotta be abit of a ***** to them in a funny/cocky way and tease them a little bit while being sexually confident.

Without an element of danger, seduction isn't seduction.

You can risk creepy and be a badboy when you have look, I'm living proof of that. But if you are old and balding she will just call the cops dude Lol

Tell that to Tyler from RSD...


RE: Shannon's Journal Discussion Volume 3 - thor2014 - 08-21-2018

(08-21-2018, 08:31 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:
(08-21-2018, 08:21 AM)NoLimit Wrote:
(08-21-2018, 04:06 AM)kingpill Wrote: You gotta 'risk creepy'. Girls like having sex with 'badboys' or 'f**kboys' with not 'cool respectable guys'. Those are the ones they will settle down with after having all their fun.

Basically you gotta be abit of a ***** to them in a funny/cocky way and tease them a little bit while being sexually confident.

Without an element of danger, seduction isn't seduction.

You can risk creepy and be a badboy when you have look, I'm living proof of that. But if you are old and balding she will just call the cops dude Lol

Tell that to Tyler from RSD...

I wonder about RSD and how many of their videos are staged or how many approaches have they done to finally capture a successful pickup.

If a girl fancies a guy no matter what he does he's hot. If she does not fancy him then she puts .him in the creepy category.