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RE: 4Kingdoms - Optimal Self Confidence 6g - 4Kingdoms - 02-10-2025
Day 5 - Ultrasonic Format
I was out and about today.
As I was going in & out of various stores while running errands...
I noticed that when someone (male or female) made eye contact with me...
They smiled and waved "hi". No verbal communication was spoken.
I didn't go out of my way to make eye contact.
As I walked within 5 feet (1.524 meters) of the person, they turned their head to look at me.
When eye contact was made, the person smiled and held up one hand.
It stood out to me because most people look straight ahead and avoid other people around them.
Not overly friendly, but very natural eye contact, smile, and hand gesture indicating hello.
As for myself, I don't feel any different.
RE: 4Kingdoms - Optimal Self Confidence 6g - Benjamin - 02-10-2025
That's cool. It is interesting, on PM i've mentioned a few times that I don't really feel 'different' other than a calmness but i'm obviously projecting a different vibe alot of the time due to the reactions I get. It's looking like with the more recent programs that we have to more observe the responses we get from others to see what it's doing.
I'd say this would be even more so on 6g that it feels natural.
RE: 4Kingdoms - Optimal Self Confidence 6g - 4Kingdoms - 02-10-2025
(02-10-2025, 07:21 PM)Benjamin Wrote: That's cool. It is interesting, on PM i've mentioned a few times that I don't really feel 'different' other than a calmness but i'm obviously projecting a different vibe alot of the time due to the reactions I get. It's looking like with the more recent programs that we have to more observe the responses we get from others to see what it's doing.
I'd say this would be even more so on 6g that it feels natural.
I agree, whatever changes are happening, they feel natural!!
In previous generations, we had to work through the resistance.
In some cases, quit before the changes take effect.
@Benjamin I believe you are correct.
"We have to observe the responses we get from others to see what it's doing."
RE: 4Kingdoms - Optimal Self Confidence 6g - 4Kingdoms - 02-12-2025
Day 6 - Ultrasonic Format
Day 6 was 2/11/2025 - this is what I observed.
Twice a week for many years I take my Mom out for breakfast.
The fast food restaurant we go to knows us.
Now that my Mom is completely blind, I order takeout and eat together in the car.
Manager A has always said, "Say Hi to Mom."
Manager B has always been aloof with me, despite me saying, "Good Morning" when I see her.
This morning, Manager B said, "Hello", to me and asked, "How are you today?"
As I sat in the car with Mom, she walked outside and when she saw me, she gave me a head nod with the head tilting back and the chin up.
Day 7 - Ultrasonic Format
I spoke with a male neighbor, he asked how I've been since the cardiac arrest.
After catching up with my situation, he told me to go get some rest.
Our interaction was very normal.
Later in the morning, I spoke with a female neighbor.
Similar conversation and our interaction was very normal.
I thought it was interesting how different relationships have different reactions to Optimal Self Confidence 6g!!
RE: 4Kingdoms - Optimal Self Confidence 6g - RTBoss - 02-12-2025
Wanted to reiterate that we're grateful you're still with us! Cheers to better health from here!
I'm also on the OSC 6G train. Very natural and powerful. I get caught up thinking what's happening is just "me", but when I think about it, I'm doing positive things (and thinking in positive ways) that I haven't in years!
Pretty cool.
RE: 4Kingdoms - Optimal Self Confidence 6g - 4Kingdoms - 02-12-2025
(02-12-2025, 01:32 PM)RTBoss Wrote: Wanted to reiterate that we're grateful you're still with us! Cheers to better health from here!
Thanks RT!! I too am grateful to be with you, IML Members, and IML Staff!!
Cheers to better health for all!!
(02-12-2025, 01:32 PM)RTBoss Wrote: I'm also on the OSC 6G train. Very natural and powerful. I get caught up thinking what's happening is just "me", but when I think about it, I'm doing positive things (and thinking in positive ways) that I haven't in years!
Pretty cool.
6G is AMAZING!! I hope you start a journal and update your progress!!
RE: 4Kingdoms - Optimal Self Confidence 6g - 4Kingdoms - 02-17-2025
Saturday, 2/15/2025 - Day 10 - Ultrasonic Format
As I was rolling out my trash can, my female neighbor crossed the street to say hi and ask how I was feeling.
I thought it would be a quick exchange and I would go back inside to shower, shave, eat breakfast, and brush my teeth.
After 40 minutes of talking about her life, I went back inside. She moved into the neighborhood about 6 months ago and this was our longest conversation. Usually, it is a quick hello, have a nice day.
Sunday, 2/16/2025 - Day 11 - Ultrasonic Format
One male neighbor had water dripping from his ceiling (the air conditioner drain line was clogged) and came to borrow my wet vac. This man has a wet vac. I've seen him use it multiple times. I'm not sure why he asked for mine.
Another male neighbor, walking his dog, stopped briefly to discuss the neighborhood meeting and get my opinion on the situation. We agreed on all the topics discussed. This man usually walks by with his dog and doesn't even look my way; he has never talked about other neighborhood meetings with me.
Monday, 2/17/2025 - Day 12 - Ultrasonic Format
I took my Mom to a different restaurant for breakfast, we sat together in a booth. We didn't know any of the employees, but that didn't stop 3 male employees from asking, "How are you today?"
It hasn't even been 2 weeks (14 days) and life is so different with Optimal Self Confidence 6G!!
Funny part... I still don't feel any different!!
RE: 4Kingdoms - Optimal Self Confidence 6g - London1 - 02-18-2025
(02-17-2025, 08:18 PM)4Kingdoms Wrote: Saturday, 2/15/2025 - Day 10 - Ultrasonic Format
As I was rolling out my trash can, my female neighbor crossed the street to say hi and ask how I was feeling.
I thought it would be a quick exchange and I would go back inside to shower, shave, eat breakfast, and brush my teeth.
After 40 minutes of talking about her life, I went back inside. She moved into the neighborhood about 6 months ago and this was our longest conversation. Usually, it is a quick hello, have a nice day.
Sunday, 2/16/2025 - Day 11 - Ultrasonic Format
One male neighbor had water dripping from his ceiling (the air conditioner drain line was clogged) and came to borrow my wet vac. This man has a wet vac. I've seen him use it multiple times. I'm not sure why he asked for mine.
Another male neighbor, walking his dog, stopped briefly to discuss the neighborhood meeting and get my opinion on the situation. We agreed on all the topics discussed. This man usually walks by with his dog and doesn't even look my way; he has never talked about other neighborhood meetings with me.
Monday, 2/17/2025 - Day 12 - Ultrasonic Format
I took my Mom to a different restaurant for breakfast, we sat together in a booth. We didn't know any of the employees, but that didn't stop 3 male employees from asking, "How are you today?"
It hasn't even been 2 weeks (14 days) and life is so different with Optimal Self Confidence 6G!!
Funny part... I still don't feel any different!!
So you don't feel more confident?
RE: 4Kingdoms - Optimal Self Confidence 6g - 4Kingdoms - 02-18-2025
(02-18-2025, 09:11 AM)London1 Wrote:(02-17-2025, 08:18 PM)4Kingdoms Wrote: Funny part... I still don't feel any different!!So you don't feel more confident?
I'm an only child and my Mom is the firstborn of 10 children.
Being the oldest forces a person to be confident at a young age.
As the oldest cousin, I was expected to take care of my younger cousins.
As far as I can remember, I'm a very confident person!!
I'm listening to Optimal Self Confidence because...
It is 6G and let's be honest, it's FREE!!
I'm surprised more people aren't listening to it.
OSC 6G is designed to balance (optimize) your self-confidence.
(02-06-2025, 01:55 PM)Shannon Wrote: Optimal Self Confidence is called "optimal" because it is designed to prevent "too much confidence". So it will never turn you into an arrogant gigachad god.
I'm sure it is balancing my confidence.
I was confident before I started listening to OSC 6G, maybe that's why I don't notice what it's doing to me.
RE: 4Kingdoms - Optimal Self Confidence 6g - 4Kingdoms - 02-25-2025
I'm reading
Atomic Attraction: The Psychology of Attraction
Author: Christopher Canwell
Friday, 2.21.2025 | Day 16 - Ultrasonic Format
I noticed my female neighbor was outside. I walked up and said...
Me: Did you have lunch?
Her: Not yet, what did you have in mind?
Me: Seafood or Steak. You fly, I'll buy.
Her: Thanks, but I'm going to tint my sliding glass doors.
Me: Okay, let me know when is a good time. You fly, I'll buy.
Before reading the book, I would have said:
Me: You can tint another day, let's go out, it's a beautiful day.
(That never worked - too needy - and the woman never went out with me)
I never had a problem asking women out.
My problem was being too polite, coming across as needy, or smothering her.
Saturday, 2.22.2025 | Day 17 - Ultrasonic Format
Next Day:
I open my front door and see a yellow post-it note on my locked gate.
Hi 4Kingdoms,
I can join you for lunch today or whenever is good for you.
I'll drive.
It was 8 am so I knocked on her door and asked if 11 am was good.
We left promptly at 11 am, she drove and normally she's very chatty, the ride to the Steak restaurant was quiet.
She's new to the area, so I navigated the route to the restaurant.
After we were seated, I kept eye contact and asked open-ended questions.
She quickly became comfortable. It felt like I was having lunch with an old friend.
Because she drove, I paid for lunch.
I never asked her about her dating or love life. She told me the names of male neighbors who exchanged phone numbers with her, but she didn't feel comfortable with them after getting to know them. She said, "They texted too much and got annoyed when she didn't text back."
When we got to her home and exited the car.
Me: Thank you, I enjoyed your company. See you next month.
(I got the impression she wanted to hug me, but I kept walking to my home)
Her: lol, see you next month??
(of course, I'll see her before that, we live across from each other)
Me: Yep, next month we try a different place.
Her: Ok, see you next month (still laughing aloud)
I became aware of something on Friday, 2.21.2025 | Day 16 - Ultrasonic Format
When driving in traffic or at a long RED light, ZERO Anxiety!!
Even as a passenger, I got anxious sitting in traffic or waiting for the light to change.
This is huge!! After being involved in 3 car accidents over my lifetime, my anxiety level has risen over time.
Zero anxiety while driving is freeing and I'm relaxed as I drive to my destination.
I'm enjoying the scenery as a passenger instead of closing my eyes.
My 80 y/o Mom has been listening to Optimal Self Confidence 6G for 20 days.
She is polite but her attitude of worrying about what others think - GONE!!
Now, she tells it like it is and doesn't mind if they disagree or make them unhappy.
RE: 4Kingdoms - Optimal Self Confidence 6g - Benjamin - 02-25-2025
Thanks for the book recommendation, it looks good so I ordered it.
Love the report. I laughed at you saying "see you next month". I bet no guy has ever said that to her.
Good results for both you and your mum, i'm enjoying the reports on OSC so far.
RE: 4Kingdoms - Optimal Self Confidence 6g - 4Kingdoms - 02-25-2025
(02-25-2025, 07:14 PM)Benjamin Wrote: Thanks for the book recommendation, it looks good so I ordered it.
Love the report. I laughed at you saying "see you next month". I bet no guy has ever said that to her.
Good results for both you and your mum, i'm enjoying the reports on OSC so far.
Atomic Attraction: The Psychology of Attraction
Author: Christopher Canwell
The book is an eye-opener!!
It's filled with real-life interactions between men and women.
Different races, countries, religions, all over the world.
Subconscious thoughts women aren't aware of, but they act on them.
He talks about grooming, a clean-shaven face - boring.
The stubble on the face - edgy, rugged.
Clean-shaven, bald head - confident - attractive.
Bald Spot, combing hair to hide it - unattractive.
Little things that women find attractive or unattractive.
Enjoy the book, it's easy to apply it in real life!!
RE: 4Kingdoms - Optimal Self Confidence 6g - Have at ye - 02-25-2025
Also, as an experienced baldster, I'm gonna say that being a clean-shaven cueball simply *looks* better, aesthetically. Although there have been historically some people who could pull of the "male pattern baldness" look, like the Polish actor Piotr Fronczewski (it was part of his image even), so I guess there's that. The book sounds interesting, though!
RE: 4Kingdoms - Optimal Self Confidence 6g - 4Kingdoms - 02-25-2025
(02-25-2025, 08:35 PM)Have at ye Wrote: Also, as an experienced baldster, I'm gonna say that being a clean-shaven cueball simply *looks* better, aesthetically. Although there have been historically some people who could pull of the "male pattern baldness" look, like the Polish actor Piotr Fronczewski (it was part of his image even), so I guess there's that. The book sounds interesting, though!
My Grandfather had "male pattern baldness".
He was married to my Grandmother until he died.
He always had ladies flirting with him and they were surprised to find out he was married!!
The best advice he ever gave me was when I was only 7 y/o.
I had no idea he was talking about sex until I got older.
"Some girls do, some girls don't. Stay away from the girls that don't"
Translation: "All girls have sex, but only have sex with girls that want to have sex with you."
I was only 7 y/o so I kept asking:
Me: Some girls do what??
Him: Nevermind!! You'll figure it out someday!!
