(09-05-2017, 02:25 PM)Determined Wrote:

(09-05-2017, 02:10 PM)RTBoss Wrote:

(09-05-2017, 07:57 AM)Rayhon Wrote: It's time to elevate things to another level. My physique is looking good again, Only thing holding me back now is Marijuana. I promise from here on in I will completely cut it out. I ran out and don't want to do it anymore.

DMSI is affecting targets around me and I have been smoking weed daily. I can't imagine to see what happens when I don't smoke.


Not only that but I need to get my personal development up, start reading books and becoming the best man I can be.


I am a man that unfortunately it's hard for me to settle for women that aren't up to my high standards. I want that 9 or 10/10 female, like that stripper I had a dance from.

I can't settle for life, and women don't want to settle either so I need to push myself in all aspects in life to get to the point where having these women in my life is just second nature and normal.


I promise I will NOT FAP ANYMORE, and NOT SMOKE WEED. MY happyness and joy in life depends on whether I can defeat these vices, becoming viceless is key.

I need TO BE ALPHA in all aspects and masturbating every day and not getting laid is the easy way out.

I want to harness my energy's and use them for sex and self development, not release them or become distracted by escapes like weed.


TIME TO KILL IT, **** FAILURE.


Life goes in cycles and I am in a good cycle right now, I need to maintain this, elevate it even more and make sure I don't fall off.

If anyone has any idea how to stay grounded, stress free and happy please let me know.

Make it your life mission to constantly seek to make yourself better. That journey involves accepting that there are ups & downs (or cycles, as you say) and merely prepare yourself, to the best of your ability, to take on those challenging times and become a better man for it. Then, during your up/good cycles, use the momentum to propel yourself forward again.

Life is never going to let up, so you gotta take it head on. Eventually, you get to a place of personal power - an internal fortitude of strength - that will give you the confidence that you can do and get through anything life throws at you.

Grounded, stress free and happy - you want to start doing meditation my friend.

Amazing for grounding. The one I do I breathe chi energy into my balls, which increases my masculine enrergy to a godly level. 10 minutes in the morning as part of my morning routine.

Quote:Meditation is amazing and I want to start adding it into my routine but it's not reccomended during DMSI.

SHANNON if your reading this, please let me know if I can start introducing meditation into my routine during times when I wont be social for the rest of the day. Please let me know or I will have to make a new thread

(09-05-2017, 11:58 PM)Rayhon Wrote: I haven't smoked weed today, threw away my weed pipe and had no urge to relapse on weed.

I did however end up fapping while going to bed because I started "edging"..

Can't do that anymore. I lasted 144 days once without fapping 4 years ago. I can do it again. It took me a few tries to get to that point because I kept edging and failing. I CANT do that though this time around. I need to harness this energy and see my full potentional. I remember 4 years ago when I stopped fapping for 144 days I had the best eye contact and self esteem around women I had ever had prior to that. (it was the no porn that did it, i also didn't watch porn during those 144 days)




Anyways, I keep thinking how stupid I am to not have gotten that strippers number, she was clearly into me she even said it her self and she clearly wanted to bang me. Learning lesson though, next time I get such strong IoI's and sex signals from a women I'm GOING TO ESCALATE THINGS into relationship/bang.


I HATE looking back in regret, such a terrible feeling. Oh well, it's all about the journey, one day I'll look back laughing.

(09-06-2017, 02:35 AM)Determined Wrote:

(09-05-2017, 11:58 PM)Rayhon Wrote: I haven't smoked weed today, threw away my weed pipe and had no urge to relapse on weed.

I did however end up fapping while going to bed because I started "edging"..

Can't do that anymore. I lasted 144 days once without fapping 4 years ago. I can do it again. It took me a few tries to get to that point because I kept edging and failing. I CANT do that though this time around. I need to harness this energy and see my full potentional. I remember 4 years ago when I stopped fapping for 144 days I had the best eye contact and self esteem around women I had ever had prior to that. (it was the no porn that did it, i also didn't watch porn during those 144 days)




Anyways, I keep thinking how stupid I am to not have gotten that strippers number, she was clearly into me she even said it her self and she clearly wanted to bang me. Learning lesson though, next time I get such strong IoI's and sex signals from a women I'm GOING TO ESCALATE THINGS into relationship/bang.


I HATE looking back in regret, such a terrible feeling. Oh well, it's all about the journey, one day I'll look back laughing.

I've seen it with my own eyes, this geeky Asian guy I knew pulled a pornstar back to our hotel in Vegas and she was really into him but for whatever reason he self sabotaged it.

His own feelings of inadequacy and that this is too good to be true for him kicked in so that external reality would match what his internal belief system was. That may appear again for you, the self sabotage. Be aware of it and what it is so that next time you can push through. Also look towards clearing it out because on this path you'll be meeting plenty of other insanely hot women.

Sometimes we have to prepare our minds for the arrival of what we want. If it arrives and we're not prepared, I.e lottery winners who don't understand money management, or hot women taking interest in a guy who doesn't ever get such interest, then the subconscious mind might work to bring the the person back to a more familiar level.

(09-06-2017, 01:31 AM)Benjamin Wrote:

Quote:Meditation is amazing and I want to start adding it into my routine but it's not reccomended during DMSI.

SHANNON if your reading this, please let me know if I can start introducing meditation into my routine during times when I wont be social for the rest of the day. Please let me know or I will have to make a new thread

Originally it was just 'don't meditate at all during DMSI' but then Shannon posted that it's fine, just do it at a different time of the day and not around girls where the state shifting could be triggered and it will be ok.