(06-14-2020, 02:57 PM)Fluffy Wrote: @Shannon

How much is wanting to be in a monogamous relationship based in fear?

My fear is that people choose a monogamous relationship based on unconscious fear, thus when in a LTR I feel like if me or my partner had no fear, we wouldn't choose a monogamous relationship. This leads me to feel that deep down my partner would prefer causal sex, open relationships, and the whole monogamous thing is just really based on a lie.

I don't consiously think this all the time, but when I think about this, I can feel into it. A part of me thinks I could be wrong, so I don't let it complelty take over me, but then I would hate to think what I have with my girlfriend is based on a lie, even if consiously we are not aware of it or even think it.

It would be interesting to hear your thoughts, thanks.

(06-14-2020, 05:43 PM)ncbeareatingman Wrote: Shannon, Congradu-Mah-lations on Buidling Over Coming Fear with the new FRM 4.9 in it,DRS and da new way to build da scripts..ect. WOW. it'll be interesting to see the results,over time!!

I recently had an experience,as of last Friday,where I believe the TID effects,from fear Remover/Over coming Fear was
'in action'- but it was many hours there after before I'd made  "the connection" as such. I Have no other reason than that!
what it was,was  Friday I Needed to call a certain Governmental agency about a concern and a a question I had concerned,in relation to some financial things. Never have I been so relaxed and at  ease,doing so,while on the phone(after a 2 hour on hold wait,including got transfer 'cut off' 3 times!) with a most pleasant phone assistant-related person. I mean it was easy,smooth and low key decent,so to speak.  I was sooo relieved,by this I cant tell you.
This has NEVER ever happened before,not that I've had to or want to contact this particular branch of the Government that much in my life anyway. non the less...over all it went really well, I got the info I need and can proceed accordingly,ect.

2ndly ) I dont know what else you're up to Shannon,but I got some clear UMS   TID today and it was so smooth pleasant and 'right in the pocket',I Mean I felt it really 'clearly'!!  This  is some groovy stuff. that is my view and belief on these experience's,I didnt 'go lookin for them' either...they showed up 'on their own'! Lovin' it! Keith

(06-14-2020, 06:35 PM)Shannon Wrote:

(06-14-2020, 05:43 PM)ncbeareatingman Wrote: Shannon, Congradu-Mah-lations on Buidling Over Coming Fear with the new FRM 4.9 in it,DRS and da new way to build da scripts..ect. WOW. it'll be interesting to see the results,over time!!

I recently had an experience,as of last Friday,where I believe the TID effects,from fear Remover/Over coming Fear was
'in action'- but it was many hours there after before I'd made  "the connection" as such. I Have no other reason than that!
what it was,was  Friday I Needed to call a certain Governmental agency about a concern and a a question I had concerned,in relation to some financial things. Never have I been so relaxed and at  ease,doing so,while on the phone(after a 2 hour on hold wait,including got transfer 'cut off' 3 times!) with a most pleasant phone assistant-related person. I mean it was easy,smooth and low key decent,so to speak.  I was sooo relieved,by this I cant tell you.
This has NEVER ever happened before,not that I've had to or want to contact this particular branch of the Government that much in my life anyway. non the less...over all it went really well, I got the info I need and can proceed accordingly,ect.

2ndly ) I dont know what else you're up to Shannon,but I got some clear UMS   TID today and it was so smooth pleasant and 'right in the pocket',I Mean I felt it really 'clearly'!!  This  is some groovy stuff. that is my view and belief on these experience's,I didnt 'go lookin for them' either...they showed up 'on their own'! Lovin' it! Keith

Interesting.  Well, I start building OF tomorrow.  After that I'm building the program for overcoming dependence on drugs.  And then we'll get into the three Big Guns.

(06-14-2020, 06:35 PM)Shannon Wrote:

(06-14-2020, 05:43 PM)ncbeareatingman Wrote: Shannon, Congradu-Mah-lations on Buidling Over Coming Fear with the new FRM 4.9 in it,DRS and da new way to build da scripts..ect. WOW. it'll be interesting to see the results,over time!!

I recently had an experience,as of last Friday,where I believe the TID effects,from fear Remover/Over coming Fear was
'in action'- but it was many hours there after before I'd made  "the connection" as such. I Have no other reason than that!
what it was,was  Friday I Needed to call a certain Governmental agency about a concern and a a question I had concerned,in relation to some financial things. Never have I been so relaxed and at  ease,doing so,while on the phone(after a 2 hour on hold wait,including got transfer 'cut off' 3 times!) with a most pleasant phone assistant-related person. I mean it was easy,smooth and low key decent,so to speak.  I was sooo relieved,by this I cant tell you.
This has NEVER ever happened before,not that I've had to or want to contact this particular branch of the Government that much in my life anyway. non the less...over all it went really well, I got the info I need and can proceed accordingly,ect.

2ndly ) I dont know what else you're up to Shannon,but I got some clear UMS   TID today and it was so smooth pleasant and 'right in the pocket',I Mean I felt it really 'clearly'!!  This  is some groovy stuff. that is my view and belief on these experience's,I didnt 'go lookin for them' either...they showed up 'on their own'! Lovin' it! Keith

Interesting.  Well, I start building OF tomorrow.  After that I'm building the program for overcoming dependence on drugs.  And then we'll get into the three Big Guns.

(06-14-2020, 11:42 PM)ncbeareatingman Wrote:  I get it ,but we're going into  Political stuff,  Rule #4 or one similar.

(06-14-2020, 10:58 PM)Zane Wrote: @Shannon  and everyone on this site, are you guys OK?

With all this worse thing happening on global level..

I am so depressed right now..

I see positivity on this forum so I come back here as always.

(06-14-2020, 11:45 PM)lano1106 Wrote:

(06-14-2020, 11:42 PM)ncbeareatingman Wrote:  I get it ,but we're going into  Political stuff,  Rule #4 or one similar.

I know that I'm threading with rule limits. I think that only stating that we are in an election year (who doesn't know?) and not discussing politics itself and of course not taking position should respect the rule 3.

If not, I'll remove the last paragraph of my post.

Update: I have removed it. I won't put the moderators into a difficult position on a situation that could easily slide in to rule violation territory.

P.S.: The only copy of my original text is now in your reply :-)

(06-15-2020, 11:09 AM)Zubrowka Wrote: Shannon,

What do you think the feeling of being disconnected from ones body come from? Fear? Do you think that the new FRM may help with this?

(06-15-2020, 01:18 PM)Shannon Wrote:

(06-15-2020, 11:09 AM)Zubrowka Wrote: Shannon,

What do you think the feeling of being disconnected from ones body come from? Fear? Do you think that the new FRM may help with this?

It could come from a number of things.  Some personality types focus more through other aspects of the self than the body.  It could come from experiences long since forgotten, drug use, and other things.  I suppose I can see it being caused by fear, although that would seem a rare circumstance indeed.  I don't know if FRM will help.