Quote:@Benjamin where is your journal? Progress?

(06-02-2018, 02:38 AM)robstar Wrote: @Shannon
I have a question about ara and dra vs E2. I have neither "Anxiety" or "Depression" speaking in clinical terms, but I have plenty of depression and anxiety within me, more so than in the past. How would you compare running E2 for say 90 days, vs running ara for 45 and dra for another 45 in terms of making me a happier, depression and anxiety free individual? Ara/dra have newer tech which definitely appeals to me more, but I wonder if they're as effective at actually clearing out issues as E2, of they're sort of more of a bandaid, having 'relief' in the title.. I don't want relief I want total healing.

(05-30-2018, 03:08 AM)Jake2015 Wrote:

(05-30-2018, 12:18 AM)thor2014 Wrote: Its my 3rd day of doing 7 loops on dmsi version A. I had the feeling that i am not that good looking. I feel insecure my mind tells me AMS will cure this but will continue with dmsi on 7 loops.

Im back after a long time away, so been trying to read and catch up on all the news here. This got my attention however because I also had that same experience during my brief run of DMSI A.

I recall mentioning in my journal how I didnt feel attractive and knew I had to work on it which ive always known but have been unable to actually start on due to lack of time, ability on where to start etc.

So now im assured it was DMSI and ill try and get back on to it.

Since stopping DMSI ive had very little desire and urge to actually get back on to it. It could be major resistance and wonder if Shannon thinks it is but consciously I felt since all I thought I was getting was no fapping then why stay on it - thats what my mind has been saying to me.

I am also eager and hoping that 3.3 will allow me to execute alot more of the sub and allow me to consciously notice this since its now clear to me that a feedback of some sorts to help encourage my hope will keep me wanting to continue using DMSI which I think is a better form of attack for all forms of resistance - in other words, if we can see it is working, and working in the right direction then we will continue to persist.

what do you think @Shannon ?

and hope all here are well

(05-30-2018, 03:34 AM)Jake2015 Wrote: So guys ive posted my journal to update what ive been upto and then wrote the following which seemed to be what I have evaluated whilst I was on DMSI.

I want to know what you all think and what @Shannon thinks too please.

Thanks

Quote:I have realised more - again is this due to DMSI I dont know - that I am a Beta Male, even though I do feel Alpha, because I make girls friends rather than lovers. I however do believe this HAS alot to do with my image and no matter what anyone says LOOKS do matter to women as much as they do to men.

A women needs to be attracted to a man in the same way a man needs to be attracted to a female. Its basic common sense. If you are a good looking man then you will get the girl. - if anyone wants to challenge this then please do. - I may post this on Shannon's journal to see what he and other say regarding this.

(05-30-2018, 03:42 AM)Jake2015 Wrote: @Shannon

Hey hope you're good bro.

Just wondered if you feel with 3.3 and beyond, as the subs near perfection/6G whether their length will decrease or increase? Whether their ARSB will change in anyway too.

I ask since in the past subs were to be played for 8hours for 32days minimum, and now we have 1 loop (70mins approx) for lesser days with breaks, that if the subs will become easier and easier to manage in a heavy busy life that we all seem to have.

thanks in advance as always!

(05-30-2018, 07:33 AM)MasterEnki Wrote: @Shannon

I have a practical ‘game plan’ now. Get to know women first, and try build a connection first (I guess this means, with them, going to cafes, beach, sharing hobbies, etc). And let them make the moves / escalate (It is my understanding that AYP manifestations will escalate, and that she will make the moves).

Quote:There are still a few things I’m confused about,

Quote:In my opinion, trying to lose your virginity to a FWB in this day and age is unwise

Quote:That means she will be less likely to hurt you than a FWB, in my experience.

Could you please expand on these points.

In what ways is my perfect FWB (primary manifestation of AYP FWB) likely to hurt me?

Why would losing my virginity to my perfect FWB be unwise?

Quote:

Quote:If I were in your shoes, I would be doing AYPSL or AYPRL

I’m currently 130 days in using AYP FWB (as of today). I started AYP FWB in mid Jan 2018.

I chose ‘Perfect FWB’ (instead of other AYPs) because I thought that it would be the option with the least amount of drama / least amount of issues.

I value my independence greatly, and want to live separately from women, and focus my dating for weekends only. I’m naturally an introvert, and like to regularly have quiet time by myself, to meditate, to read, and relax.

Though, if losing my virginity to my ‘perfect FWB’ has hidden and dangerous consequences, then I may reconsider (and try another AYP), if those consequences are severe enough.


Thanks

(05-30-2018, 10:51 AM)thor2014 Wrote: I use to get a proper IDGAF on AMS all i am getting from dmsi is concerns and worries about my age and looks.

(05-31-2018, 03:37 AM)thor2014 Wrote: Ben, Shannon

I might have self esteem issues. Should i purchase and use the self esteem sub instead ? Or continue with dmsi version a ?.

(05-31-2018, 07:39 AM)Frosted Wrote: Hey Shannon I don't know if this inappropriate so don't hesitate to tell me if it is, but I'm making a subliminal for myself and was wondering if you could check my scripting of a few lines. I remember you encouraged someone in the past to make their own subliminal and gave them tips so thought I'd ask you. I'm not sure if these particular lines will backfire or not. I won't be distributing or advertising my subliminals they are purely for my personal use. Go ahead and edit this post if you want to.