Subliminal Talk

(03-16-2018, 06:58 AM)Mr. Anderson Wrote: [ -> ]Well, English is not my first language

If you never wrote that, I would have thought English is your first language!!

(03-16-2018, 08:23 AM)4Kingdoms Wrote: [ -> ]

(03-16-2018, 06:58 AM)Mr. Anderson Wrote: [ -> ]Well, English is not my first language

If you never wrote that, I would have thought English is your first language!!

Lol, to be exact it is already my third language as I spend my childhood in two different countries with two different languages. Started learning English in my 5th grade at school.

Have been told today by a woman I have not seen for longer that I really look "good" somehow, she couldn't describe it better. Later got some IOI's from some girls but other than that not much to report. Still bothered about the anti-masturbation module. I would even pay for a custom version with deactivated masturbation module but unfortunatly it is not something I can afford.

Seriously Idk why u r bothered about masturbation module. Whats the worse that could happen? It's not like u will loose control and jump on random woman on streets..

I urges u to continue and see where this goes.

(03-17-2018, 12:26 PM)Zane Wrote: [ -> ]Seriously Idk why u r bothered about masturbation module. Whats the worse that could happen? It's not like u will loose control and jump on random woman on streets..

I urges u to continue and see where this goes.

On the opposite I could say I don't know why other people want this module at all but it wouldn't lead anywhere. I think I made it clear in my earlier posts (well, maybe not), I want to have a CHOICE if I masturbate or not and I don't want that be forbidden by a sub. I tell you another example from my life. I pay for my internet access at least 5 Euro more than I normally would. Why? Because they give me the CHOICE to leave whenever I want (nomally internet contracts are two years here). Saying this I am already a customer for over 5 years at this provider. Do I want to change providers? No. So why I am paying more than I could? Because I have a CHOICE this way and this is important enough for me to pay more for this option. Same with the anti-masturbation module.

(03-18-2018, 04:56 AM)DarkPlouf Wrote: [ -> ]That nofap stuff is highly personal. However, some people don't even want to try it before making up their minds. I too was thinking before that jerking off once in a while was okay. Until I tried nofap for more than 60days. Now I can't just go back at all and now I know how harmful it was for me. That was really self-destructive...The benefits outweigh by far the few minutes of delusional pleasure you would get by fapping. Just the fact that life became infinitely more pleasurable is priceless. I do more in less time and everything is fun. I have that stupid smile all the time and everything seems more and more enjoyable.
Idk about the benefits of nofap regarding sex and women as I couldn't care less at all, but my mood is great and life seems more easy.

So I think people should try at least. As it is very personal you don't know what you might get from it.

Well, first at all I find all the nofap stuff ridiculous because the urge for reproduction is a very natural thing. And if there isn't any woman there then there must be a replacement. I mean nobody would came up with the idea to stop drinking, eating or simply sleeping (by the way you can also feel better when you stop eating for some time but it would be not good to stop eating forever), which are also natural urges. But I tell you something, I tried it for some time, just not very long. Already after a short time (I think two weeks or so) the urge to masturabe stopped. But in opposite to some others I also lost my motivation to do anything, I also lost my interests and - worst thing - I was almost unable to get an erection at all. No more morning woods, maybe 30% erection when close to a hot woman, it really sucked. Then I started to fap again and - surprise - erections were back, motivation and interests were back, I was alive again.

There is an old speaking which says "Use it or loose it" which I really believe is true. If you don't use your muscles, you loose muscle mass, if you don't use your cognitive abilities than your neural pathways degenerate, if you don't use your dick....well...I think you get the picture. That's and what I already wrote in my earlier posts make me really afraid of this nofap module and I really don't wanna have this there. I hope in 3.3 Shannon will find a better solution than simply forbid masturbating for the user.

Really? I now have morning wood regularly and actually getting aroused is more easy. I actually have to control myself now to do not lurk too much at boobs and asses.
Well, I understand you had a bad experience with it but there's is big difference between two weeks and two months.
Everyone is truly different.

There is something called flatlining that typically happens after around two weeks. It might seem like your dick is dead lol. But in reality your body is just recalibrating. It'll be back to normal functioning and feeling better than ever.

(03-18-2018, 06:29 AM)wolverine_i_am Wrote: [ -> ]There is something called flatlining that typically happens after around two weeks. It might seem like your dick is dead lol. But in reality your body is just recalibrating. It'll be back to normal functioning and feeling better than ever.

The thing is there will be always someone telling you why it does not work (yet), no matter if two weeks, moths or years. Anyway, I am fine if other people want this and are happy with, I just don't want people to tell me to do the same.

(03-18-2018, 06:29 AM)wolverine_i_am Wrote: [ -> ]There is something called flatlining that typically happens after around two weeks. It might seem like your dick is dead lol. But in reality your body is just recalibrating. It'll be back to normal functioning and feeling better than ever.

To each their own. I've tried nofap for a long time as well, and I can say I relate more with Mr. Anderson's experience.

I think a good balance for me is once or twice a week. I'd rather have some liquid circulation in my body.

Today I wanted to play the sub again. I took my phone but as soon I had the player on my screen I got disgusted and put my phone away. Later the same. Even later I started the sub but after about 30 seconds I felt so disgusted that I had to stop the sub. I don't know, seems like I am fighting the script or at least the anti-fap-thing to the extreme. Oh, and when it comes to fapping, I did it three times today, don't know when I fapped so often last time. I also realized that I fapped more often on this sub than with previous versions. Looks for me like some kind of act of defiance. I don't know how much of this is resistance to the goal of the sub and how much resistance to this module but the latter is definitely there.

One more thing I wanted to mention is that I probably had also resistance against the eating disorder module at the begin. Before even starting this sub I have had trouble eating anything and ate ridiculous low amounts. And about at the same time as well as in the first usage days I had sometimes moments where I felt like immediately vomiting. Good thing that it never really happened and it seems like it faded away later. I think the reason here is, is the fact that I was always a skinny guy and people told me all the time I have to eat more (without knowing how much I eat at all) and with time I got really tired of hearing this again and again.

I agree that masturbation or cessation of masturbation should be a personal, and informed choice. I personally don't like that Shannon has included it in the sub. I am sure that he means well and has research to back-up his reason for including it, but I don't see why it is necessary its like a one size fits all solution.

What I am more worried about is if resisting this module in the sub will affect the ability of our subconscious to abide by the rest of the instructions in the subliminal.

The good thing is that my reaction indicates that resistance would be probably overcome with this version because otherwise I wouldn't feel disgusted just by thinking about running this sub again. Anyway, just hope there will be a better solution with the next version so I am (almost) sure I will reach my goals then.

Seriously guys now the problem is the sub doesn’t give you the choice to mastubate?!!
Dont you read the journals and see that how many users who decide to masturbate will do so anyways?and many will do it exactly 3times in one day (including myself when I was resisting) as a form of resisting.
What will be the alternative? keep masturbating and watch porn as a form of escapism?
I don’t really get it!