11-27-2017, 07:46 AM
11-27-2017, 06:40 PM
Anxiety is fear of a possible future outcome. A good friend of mine (whose also super intelligent) once said that "anxiety is the worst possible use of the imagination" which it is.
When you break it down, anxiety is state when a person's mind is running at a million miles an hour, thinking and worrying about all the worst case scenarios that could happen. In some cases this is expected (such as in Raykon's court case) in others its grossly exaggerated (such as with women).
I used to have really bad anxiety without even knowing it. It's quite debilitating. While I do like ARA as a product, I think as ascendant males we need to look at the bigger picture which is taming our minds. When the mind works for you (instead of against you) then anxiety no longer exists.
When you break it down, anxiety is state when a person's mind is running at a million miles an hour, thinking and worrying about all the worst case scenarios that could happen. In some cases this is expected (such as in Raykon's court case) in others its grossly exaggerated (such as with women).
I used to have really bad anxiety without even knowing it. It's quite debilitating. While I do like ARA as a product, I think as ascendant males we need to look at the bigger picture which is taming our minds. When the mind works for you (instead of against you) then anxiety no longer exists.
11-27-2017, 07:13 PM
Yo quick question when you repped me sage advice what does that mean
11-27-2017, 08:07 PM
(11-27-2017, 07:13 PM)Life Wrote: [ -> ]Yo quick question when you repped me sage advice what does that mean
Have a look at the post it was tagged to
11-27-2017, 08:17 PM
Right
11-28-2017, 02:47 PM
Hey man, i'm gonna have to get you to change the title of your thread due to rule 4.
11-29-2017, 09:34 AM
(11-28-2017, 02:47 PM)Benjamin Wrote: [ -> ]Hey man, i'm gonna have to get you to change the title of your thread due to rule 4.
okay no problem
11-29-2017, 02:35 PM
Thanks man.
11-29-2017, 09:10 PM
Raykon, how is ARA going so far? Have you noticed an increase in effects and more improvements in areas such as: your body language, level of stress, and approach anxiety?
11-30-2017, 07:59 AM
(11-29-2017, 09:10 PM)K-Train Wrote: [ -> ]Raykon, how is ARA going so far? Have you noticed an increase in effects and more improvements in areas such as: your body language, level of stress, and approach anxiety?
Body Language is good, hard to guage the stress/anxiety of my general life with trial coming up, although it got post poned to dec 18.
But approach anxiety wise and when I think about dating i'm way better.
I couldn't approach before without getting severe anxiety. now I can approach no problem if the chick is hot enough to make me want to do it.
12-05-2017, 11:01 AM
I just did another approach.
I was at a food court at a mall by myself eating greek food 10 30 in the morning.
I see this beautiful 10/10 young women (19 years old I found out)
I saw her check me out once while I was eating.
I had anxiety come up almost didn't do the approach, then I thought to myself, If I don't do this approach I'm a failure and I will never be successful in life. (because my business is PUA related and also confidence with women relates to all aspects of life imo)
Breaking comfort zone / fears.
Anyways, I did the approach and it was THE BEST EVER.
I had INSANE attraction right off the bat, BIG GIANT ANIME EYES looking at me, it's a sign of attraction when a womens eyes get really big when looking at you. They did studys.
Anyways we made some conversation and I got her number and gave her mine. Her manager was looking at us and made it difficult to talk much but the whole time it felt natural and great.
It felt like neither one of us wanted to conversation to end, i even said "I wish I could talk to you more right now"
I didn't want to get her trouble and I told her that too, because her manager was there.
But yeah it was amazing man, she was SO HOT and into me and I am sure we will go on a date.
I told her "We should definitely meet up sometime, i'm busy this week but maybe next weekend or the weekend after" she said "definitely!"
I notice I learn quickly from my mistakes, My over analytical mind is a blessing and curse.
I was at a food court at a mall by myself eating greek food 10 30 in the morning.
I see this beautiful 10/10 young women (19 years old I found out)
I saw her check me out once while I was eating.
I had anxiety come up almost didn't do the approach, then I thought to myself, If I don't do this approach I'm a failure and I will never be successful in life. (because my business is PUA related and also confidence with women relates to all aspects of life imo)
Breaking comfort zone / fears.
Anyways, I did the approach and it was THE BEST EVER.
I had INSANE attraction right off the bat, BIG GIANT ANIME EYES looking at me, it's a sign of attraction when a womens eyes get really big when looking at you. They did studys.
Anyways we made some conversation and I got her number and gave her mine. Her manager was looking at us and made it difficult to talk much but the whole time it felt natural and great.
It felt like neither one of us wanted to conversation to end, i even said "I wish I could talk to you more right now"
I didn't want to get her trouble and I told her that too, because her manager was there.
But yeah it was amazing man, she was SO HOT and into me and I am sure we will go on a date.
I told her "We should definitely meet up sometime, i'm busy this week but maybe next weekend or the weekend after" she said "definitely!"
I notice I learn quickly from my mistakes, My over analytical mind is a blessing and curse.
12-06-2017, 09:21 AM
For those interested in my rap, and followed my natural song lyric writing journal.
I felt like my lyrical writing was lacking a bit, I used that subliminal for 2 nights in a span of the last 2 weeks, and each time I did it for a night the next day I wrote a really good minute of a track.
Here is what I wrote the night after using that subliminal for only one night (It helped me so much with writing and lyrical ability using it for month before)
I'm awaiting trial,
waiting to see what
my fate is now, ain't got
time for these haters now
I gotta get that cream
and make my mamma proud
been sheltered now he's
aiming for your shelter now
skeptical now hes making sounds
leaps and bounds gotta grind
can't slumber now, where will
you be when that thunder sounds
rumbles the ground, struggles
and sounds you had to endure
put myself through that pain like a saboteur,
self sabotage, dabbled in the arts of the dark
mind became deranged like a rabid dog
mind became quite dark made them demons starve
looking back in hindsight he was blind right
but he had to do what he thought was right
at the time like dance with the Goddess of love
Venus, in that moment his world was spinning
and I really mean this, shortly after became a demon,
leering for innocence he was cheering fiending
headed astray life was steering, into a direction
he was admittingly in fear of, conscious asleep,
subconsiously demons would speak up creep into
his mind when he's asleep and beat him
for that green he was asleep fiending - Raykon AKA Empathy, Vancouver
I felt like my lyrical writing was lacking a bit, I used that subliminal for 2 nights in a span of the last 2 weeks, and each time I did it for a night the next day I wrote a really good minute of a track.
Here is what I wrote the night after using that subliminal for only one night (It helped me so much with writing and lyrical ability using it for month before)
I'm awaiting trial,
waiting to see what
my fate is now, ain't got
time for these haters now
I gotta get that cream
and make my mamma proud
been sheltered now he's
aiming for your shelter now
skeptical now hes making sounds
leaps and bounds gotta grind
can't slumber now, where will
you be when that thunder sounds
rumbles the ground, struggles
and sounds you had to endure
put myself through that pain like a saboteur,
self sabotage, dabbled in the arts of the dark
mind became deranged like a rabid dog
mind became quite dark made them demons starve
looking back in hindsight he was blind right
but he had to do what he thought was right
at the time like dance with the Goddess of love
Venus, in that moment his world was spinning
and I really mean this, shortly after became a demon,
leering for innocence he was cheering fiending
headed astray life was steering, into a direction
he was admittingly in fear of, conscious asleep,
subconsiously demons would speak up creep into
his mind when he's asleep and beat him
for that green he was asleep fiending - Raykon AKA Empathy, Vancouver
12-07-2017, 05:05 PM
Court got extended to feb 3 FML
but anxiety program is working well, I find that when I didn't use it for the 3 days that I was using Natural song and lyric writing and exercise enjoyment (i used it for 3 days in last week n half) I felt worse on those days, anxiety wise.
Anxiety would come up more noticeably.
I think anxiety program I have to stay on it for a long time, maybe not using DMSI when it first comes out.
Unless someone can clarify how much of the ARA is being added to DMSI and how effective it will be at it when it's incorporated into DMSI VS standalone product.
but anxiety program is working well, I find that when I didn't use it for the 3 days that I was using Natural song and lyric writing and exercise enjoyment (i used it for 3 days in last week n half) I felt worse on those days, anxiety wise.
Anxiety would come up more noticeably.
I think anxiety program I have to stay on it for a long time, maybe not using DMSI when it first comes out.
Unless someone can clarify how much of the ARA is being added to DMSI and how effective it will be at it when it's incorporated into DMSI VS standalone product.
12-08-2017, 01:46 PM
On ARA you seem to be doing really well. I think you should stay on it even if DMSI has ARA simply because DMSI is so many things at once. Something as laser specific as ARA is great. I have been using it as well and it is incredibly calming. I have not drank or smoked for the month using it.
I really like your progress in your journal with ARA and especially the approaching and wanting to make a pUA company. Very inspiring and enjoyable to read.
I really like your progress in your journal with ARA and especially the approaching and wanting to make a pUA company. Very inspiring and enjoyable to read.